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| Author: | nuttybuddygame [ Sun Feb 09, 2014 11:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | To be or not to be creepy! |
Today I wanted to talk about being you but not being creepy or awkward. I wanted to talk about you as a whole. You can try to get women by typically just trying but Have you worked on yourself first? If you are not living to better Yourself or you are not getting out and learning and seeking knowledge You are handicapping yourself. People want to Be with interesting people! Even the really boring ones Want to experience that interesting feeling. How do you become interesting And not creepy? Are u or do you feel that the girl you are talking to Is better then you? Do you feel like this girl is out of my league. Ask yourself why she is out of your league? Perhaps your ego and self worth needs adjusting. I had this really hot girl Start talking to me the other day, when I started Qualifying her I found out that she rides her bike to work at a bar She just moved in with family and she injoys drugs. Now since my ego is fully Intacted and my self worth is extremely high, I stopped The chase and put her in friend zone. Think about it for a minute I have a job a car and my own place- why would I want someone not on that level? Remember if The roles were reversed she wouldn't even wanna be friends. You must know What is the right fit for you not a drain or someone who obviously Isn't quality. Take pride in yourself. Here are some tips to helping your ego and creating interest and not creepyiness- Ego boosts - if your feeling lower - Walk to a hot girl ask her to tell you why she pick out that outfit tonight out of all her outfits When she replies- nod your head and say really? Pause yes ok- ah huh ah huh and then say I'm bored and walk away. Truely believe you are bored- Creepy: going up to her asking her where she got her outfit then saying It brings out your eyes or I think I'll buy it for my mom. Difference: one is gauging if she actually cares about if she Choose the right outfit the other tells her she didn't because It's attracting guys shopping for there mom and creeps. But wait why walk out of set? Everyone screams! Because it's an ego boost- for example Not designed to do anything but make you feel you don't need it. The funny thing Is sometimes that girl will want to engage you and the You have what we call leverage. Ego- self worth- own it and believe it - You will know your egos good when you get Called a jerk multi times- But guess what at least your projecting Self worth instead of creepiness or awkwardness. How many times Had girls said your a nice guy? I went out last night And watch many failure attempts from nice guys. Everytime The girl would say he's nice... But then Move away from him... Here's the breakdown Me: if a girl takes out phone or is thumbing Through phone.. I will command attention- she will Either A.) put it away or b.) play her silly game. Now a man of value and self worth won't put up with it.. Creepiness: hey who you texting seems interesting let's Be face book buddies or hey I'm a rapper let's hang. Me: Address the issue first- hi I see your on the phone I'll give you a minute to finish up before we have a conversation. Showing ego and self worth. Find yourself asking girl to many questions? Check your ego and self worth- Say to her I haven't been talking about myself Much and I apologize- I was actually begining To think that you like talking about yourself more then I do.. So tell me what you would like to know about me? Once again your checking into your self worth and ego. I can't stress enough that you need to care for yourself More then her! Are u having fun? Is she Giving or making you feel like your glad u came out? If answer is no- move on- |
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| Author: | Peterpack [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 11:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: To be or not to be creepy! |
I think creepy has less to do with what words come out of your mouth and more to do with your body language, vibe and social calibration What you do with your eyes is especially important. Your eyes can make someone feel comfortable or can make someone feel like a targeted piece of meat. Even when being direct, you don't want her to feel like a hooker |
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| Author: | nuttybuddygame [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 6:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: To be or not to be creepy! |
Body language has a lot to do with ego and self worth A confident alpha walks with a certain attitude And projects confidence. If I were to take A picture of you would it scream confidence? Produce more favorable body language. |
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