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Author:  ziki [ Mon Jan 27, 2014 8:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Picking up gym hotties

Can it be done? I mean the really hot girls that look like the ones posting selfies on tumblr. Tight nylons ass, ripped abs the whole shebang. How can you run a game on these crazy ass bitches?

What's the mindset on woman that fall under this category, and is there really any kind of approach?

Author:  ben dover [ Mon Jan 27, 2014 10:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

Just think for a bit like that woman for a while. You are full of yourself, you have guys hitting on you all the time, they are all jerks, they look in your ass,tits all the time etc.

The first rule of a PUA is to be opposite of all those guys. This means you go there not drunk, full with confidence, you do the crazy girl or any other opener. I like to be humorous, but you have to transition it later on during the conversation to get her number. Than you do a DHV, and this time be even more brutal than regular, cause this strong 10 girls like it. Than you get into an emotional connection, and in the meantime keep in mind your goal and don't look at her ass/tits. Once you do that, tell her you look like an interesting girl, how about we go and grab a sandwich or something... After that you stay for a while, do not leave immidiately.

The main thing here is to approach without any anxiety and confidence. I know it's tough but come on do it. And trust me this method works, I have tried it many times, and had a couple of decent 10's myself. Maybe the other will weigh in as well on this.

Author:  ziki [ Tue Jan 28, 2014 8:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

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Just think for a bit like that woman for a while. You are full of yourself, you have guys hitting on you all the time, they are all jerks, they look in your ass,tits all the time etc.

The first rule of a PUA is to be opposite of all those guys. This means you go there not drunk, full with confidence, you do the crazy girl or any other opener. I like to be humorous, but you have to transition it later on during the conversation to get her number. Than you do a DHV, and this time be even more brutal than regular, cause this strong 10 girls like it. Than you get into an emotional connection, and in the meantime keep in mind your goal and don't look at her ass/tits. Once you do that, tell her you look like an interesting girl, how about we go and grab a sandwich or something... After that you stay for a while, do not leave immidiately.

The main thing here is to approach without any anxiety and confidence. I know it's tough but come on do it. And trust me this method works, I have tried it many times, and had a couple of decent 10's myself. Maybe the other will weigh in as well on this.
Well the my main concern is people on gym, are strongly there to excercize, and not socialise. At least not while they're on the middle of their routine. If you happen to catch them way early or while leaving it should be okay, but mostly people (men and women) will think why is this guy bothering me right now, if you happen to talk to them while training. I'm new on this gym and i have tried opening some guys lightly, for the purpose of networking and forming alliances and generally get to know people before i start hitting on girls, but most people just talk briefly and return to their exercise or headphone music listening and brush you off politely. And i dont condemn them, cause they're there to train, at that stage... Its natural that they do this.

BTW you're advice is solid if practiced at the right time, but honestly have you tried gym 10s? I mean have you really gamed on the gym environment to provide a full report, on how things went down. That would be really interesting to me.

Author:  ben dover [ Tue Jan 28, 2014 9:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

No actually I have gamed once in the gym. However I failed to get the convo moving on, but I approached her successfully.

I noticed this girl had the same routine all the time, so before she arrived i just hoped on her machine doing my reps. She came to me and said are you going to finish soon? I said like oh yeah, like a minute or two (a time constraint). So she stood her by me, and I started some casual chit chat (i had the lock in position) and we did some talking, however I wasn't that skilled in transitioning the talk into a phone number conversation.

So I guess you have to take your time, and don't be obsessed about aproaching her, but be ready all the time. Cause all of a sudden you may be side to side, or changing reps and you don't want to be caught off guard.

But I mean gaming a set or a lone girl is different, you might even not do it once but first take the step of approaching, than some cool hi's, than talk some other time when you have the opportunity. Take it slow at least, you have nothing to lose really.

Author:  jane28 [ Fri Jan 31, 2014 12:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

Those girls are airheads, narcissistic, bimbo, whatever you call them. One thing you need to remember these girls might be so easy to approach in reality they are not! Why? Imagine, a lot of men are approaching them, lining up in order to get laid. What makes you different then? You do want the same thing from her, right?

Thus, you need to play it smart but not too obvious. Be the kind of guy who is going to sweep off her feet and stand out from those guys.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jan 31, 2014 4:36 pm ]
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Those girls are airheads, narcissistic, bimbo,
So? I fail to see that as an issue. And I'm quite sure they wear tiny extra tight yoga outfits for comfort.

#1 Never interrupt a girl's workout to introduce yourself.

My approach; Point at ear buds. She removes ear buds; "Hey there I'm Heywood, I figured if I met you it wouldn't be awkward staring at your butt!"

Author:  ziki [ Sat Feb 01, 2014 11:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

Ok keep em coming. Also how about a neg in the form. Wow you look so nice, do you take steroids (playfully)?

Author:  Greco7 [ Sat Feb 01, 2014 6:45 pm ]
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Ok keep em coming. Also how about a neg in the form. Wow you look so nice, do you take steroids (playfully)?

I agree 100% with the neg hits. Most girls are at the gym though to improve their looks, so this means one of two things: They are either unhappy with the way they look (insecure), or they are just dedicated to keeping fit.

If done lightly, just a tiny neg hit, it could work wonders in dropping her guard so you can build some good rapport with her and maybe number close. However, do it to the wrong girl and you might make her feel like shit lol.

However, I would stay away from the steroids joke. Many people who dedicate themselves to gym can get offended, even though it's a compliment to their body in a way... You are suggesting that they could not achieve their progress without the need of assistance (steroids/supplements), which insults their hard work and dedication if they're all "natty". So I'd just be mindful on the negs I use.

Personally though I haven't had the balls to approach any of the girls in my gym, usually because I'm dripping in sweat when they're near me and while I'm not fat or ugly, I just feel that it's not an ideal situation to be number closing a girl when your forehead is wet AF. Lol.

Good luck!

Author:  JackSarge [ Sun Feb 02, 2014 5:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

Well OP as I recently learned from another PUA though I am improvising a bit here, it's all about your demograhic. Your demographic is where and why you approach. If your demographic is wrong then nothing you can do to fix it. To be certain I only saw only two 8's at the Gym and one was scoping me hard but I found her on FB and she was married so that was kinda weird for her to be sending me those signals.

Secondly hardly any hot girls go to my Gym only 6's and 7's and frankly they ain't worth my time. I did open another 8 at my Gym one time who was smiling at me but used the wrong opener and not the opener I wanted (due to AA) and got blown out pretty quick.

I saw a 9 once, once at my Gym who looked at me lustfully taking a tour as she was scoping it out and should of said hi but didn't so she never came back. So I learned never to change my demographic on where I meet women as in the Bars, Clubs, Water Parks, Holiday Events, Outdoor Malls as they are swarming with hot chicks there. The Gym is like a ghost town of hotties compared to the Club on a Summer night.

This is why 1 random means nothing to me and from now on changing my demographic to Day Game and Night Game to those places as the Gym, Stores, etc is just not a reliable source of hotties. Almost any weekend during Summer at a Water Park, Bar, Club, Outdoor Mall is going to result with many viable options so I no longer feel the need to open Gym Hotties and it makes me stronger as I don't have to lower my value in the Gym by a blow out, unneeded AA, etc.

Lastly last Summer I was swimming in so many hotties from just Night Game alone of the Bars and Club I didn't even need to rely on any other source but now going to up my game and include Day Game this Summer which will catapult me into a new dimension of my Inner Game. More hotties means more success and yet I had so much success I had trouble merging Sets, juggling 4 numbers I got in one night last Summer at a Bar in 30 minutes. This was super productive compared to the Gym where you have no state pumped up going in and it takes way too much time investment and other factors of waiting whereas at the Bar there is no waiting.

On a side note the environment affects the girl's state of mind as in the Gym or Store have to be coy and polite (very easy to get creeper status) and may be unopen to meeting guys as they are on their high horse (I'm hard to find, and hitting on me in a strange place is creepy) so they will be much more stuck up whereas at the Bar or Club where there is tons of hotties (harder to get creeper status) getting hit on you have more options so they are less stuck up (I'm hard to get as I expect it) and thus more open to meeting guys. All about demographic man!

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Feb 03, 2014 1:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

Wow! A lot of fucking thinking goes on around here.

Just do or say the first thing that comes into your head .....BEFORE it all drains into your dick.... well maybe the other way round!

Author:  The_Closer [ Wed Feb 05, 2014 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

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Well the my main concern is people on gym, are strongly there to excercize, and not socialise.
I agree with this. Even if she is one of those out for attention selfie takers, I wouldn't make it a habit of hitting on girls at the gym. Or doing anything other than working out at the gym for that matter. If you turn it into a place where you game bitches, you also turn it into a place where you aren't lifting, which is what you're there to do.

Same reason they say don't study where you sleep. Or shit where you sleep.

Plenty more places to approach. Gym ain't it.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Feb 06, 2014 9:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

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I think you have something on your butt. Oh wait that's just my eyes.

Author:  Romeo10 [ Sat Feb 08, 2014 7:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

For me, I think the gym is a good place to approach girls also like in a mall or at the club or whatever..
You just have to know how you can do it..
We all know that is almost impossible to chit chat with girls at the gym for at least 5 minutes or longer..

Mostly I approach with a smooth opener and then move slightly to the ,,non-verbal-game" to build more sexual tension.. (Thanks for ,,Gambler" for this technique I've seen in one of his videos on YouTube)
The techniques what He is showing aren't only for the night game, You can use it almost everywhere..

Here is an example of how I handled with a gym hottie last time..

At first I've build eye contact with this girl.. She was facing me while she tried to do some squats..
Then I've let her know that she was doing it very good while I'm raised my thumb.. (She laughed and do it the same)

After a minute I got her attention, I moved over to her and said ,,that she was doing it almost well but it could be better" (in a really cool and smooth way) She was doing it right but it doesn't matter cause I just wanted to get her number..

So she wanted me to show her how to do it right, but I let her do it again and I got over to to the ,,non-verbal-game"..
While she was doing squats I preferred to stay neither in front nor back of her to run my game.. I was standing next to her and moved the half of my leg close between hers and explained some stuff while we going up and down.. (Here I was building sexual tension because we were really close to each other and the part of explaining helped me, her to build trust)

After that, I didn't ask suddenly for her number.. I used a line like ,,so, when You are going to quit.? maybe we can have a drink (shake, juice or whatever) together after workout.. She agreed, we had a nice conversation going and I got her number.. Now we were on our second date 3 days ago..


All what I can say is.. Just go for it, be cool and don't act nervous, be confident and use what the area is giving you..


-Romeo10-

Author:  Dragula [ Sat Feb 08, 2014 9:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

The trick with "gym game" is that I think it's best to do slow game. Kinda like social circle game.

It would be wise to frequent the gym and make her know you're serious about the gym and that you are both dedicated.

For a couple of days a simple head nod to her as you walk past her should all you need , then leave and do your thing

Then a couple of more gym sessions later, go for a "hey"

Then keep turning it up a notch till you're gym buddies pretty much

"Hi , we seem to be regulars so just wanted to intro my self, I'm pebble"

Then she will intro her self and and then you should leave. At this point you're good to game her but she probably start a convo with you by that time in a lot of cases.

From this point you won't get blown out because you have built comfort in a non needy way. You're obviously not at the gym to pick up chicks.

Even better, you can do the same with everybody else including the guys so she realises that it's part of your personality. Social proof is great for places that frequent the same people.

The ultimate solution will be to be that guy that has the best body of the place ha ,but that will require some crazy amount of time to master.

TLDR version:

Play it slow ,start small and develop comfort , then when she accepts you, you can game her normally.

Author:  Noitartst [ Sat Feb 08, 2014 10:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Picking up gym hotties

Hmm. I frequent a gym now, and I'm just learning pickup, which I've been learning via daygame at a local community college. Several female gym staff have sent me IOIs, but have hardly the experience of how to respond.

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