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| Author: | transforming [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 4:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | breaking rapport, neg theory |
A beautiful girl usually assumes that a guy approaching her wants to suit her, she experiences this many times and she gets annoyed by it. So she is often defensive when a new man approaches her and wants to brush the guy off as soon as possible. We need to disqualify ourselves as a potential suitor, so she won't be in a defensive mood or try to brush us off. We achieve this(Disqualifying ourselves as a potential suitor) by negging the target, because logically a potential suitor won't neg a girl he wants to suit. By negging her, a girl won't think that you wants to suit/court her. Another effect of negging is that it lowers the value of the target, therefore she probably wants to redeem her value, she will want to win you over. |
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| Author: | afcAL [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 6:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: breaking rapport, neg theory |
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Cute girls love to flirt as much Mc D's munching warthogs. As long as she doesn't assume that the sole purpose of your interaction is to get into her panties, you are good to go. Al |
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| Author: | maxtazm [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 7:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: breaking rapport, neg theory |
break that rapport. tell her she's a dog, tell her she's gross. react to what she says in fun unexpected ways. |
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| Author: | transforming [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 9:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: breaking rapport, neg theory |
Why do we not allow the target to respond when we throw a neg? True that she may call you an asshole if she can respond, but does it solve the problem simply by giving her no time to respond? Do you see what I say? If we don't give her time to respond, she just harbors the emotion. When we throw a neg to the target, why will the target call us an asshole(if she has time to respond) since neg is not an insult in the first place? Since it is not an insult, why will the target call us an asshole? When throw the neg "too bad I'm gay or you'd be so my type", don't you think that the girl will think that you're weird? |
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| Author: | transforming [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 10:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: breaking rapport, neg theory |
Why do we need to neg? When(in what situation, in which phase) to neg? How to neg? When should we not neg? What is our desired result of negging? |
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| Author: | afcAL [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 12:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: breaking rapport, neg theory |
Neg is a part of a push-pull theory. Its basically a backhanded comment to convey to the the target that you are not interested in her. Some folks take it too far and insult the women outright. This is not necessary most of the time, as genuine interest and playful banter does the trick just as well. Al |
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| Author: | transforming [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 3:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: breaking rapport, neg theory |
Quote: Neg is a part of a push-pull theory. Its basically a backhanded comment to convey to the the target that you are not interested in her. Some folks take it too far and insult the women outright. This is not necessary most of the time, as genuine interest and playful banter does the trick just as well.
Isn't neg part of disqualification theory?
Al |
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| Author: | afcAL [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 11:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: breaking rapport, neg theory |
Quote: Isn't neg part of disqualification theory?
Never cared enough to find out. I do know that getting bogged down in a cesspool of irrelevant theory while in the field seriously hinders your game.Al |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Sun Dec 08, 2013 4:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: breaking rapport, neg theory |
negging is great if you now how to use it. I don't like to view it as lowering her status or anything like that... it's just a witty approach that gets her attention. It's not supposed to shoot her down. |
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| Author: | transforming [ Mon Dec 09, 2013 1:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: breaking rapport, neg theory |
My understanding of neg is to say something not good about the target without being rude/offensive, so she will know that you just said something not good about her, but you have no malice. You are not insulting her, you are not attacking her. |
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