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Author:  HSP [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 10:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re-opening someone i used to have a thing with

Recently i have been thinking about the type of girl that would be right for me. The one on my list that seemed to be the best for me was this girl that i used to have a thing with when i was an AFC couple years ago. In my Sophomore year we had 3 classes together and would lightly converse and flirt with each other. Obviously in my AFC days I did not get anywhere and it died. The next year we had 1 class together. I made her laugh when i yelled out funny comments in class and she would look over and stare at me every once in awhile in class. I still never did anything about her, because I was not pursuing her that year or have the ability to get her if I wanted. This year we have no classes together and the only time I see her is in the parking lot or in the hall talking with her friend at her locker.

Additional information- She follows my Instagram and likes my pictures occasionally. She doesn't like anyone else's photos except mine and one other dude's(not a threat) pics. She is generally a quiet person, but used to open up to me, which was a surprise for how quiet she was.

This will be a challenge. I need some help with how I should approach this situation, I was thinking about saying Hi to her in the parking lot when I get my car situation fixed and escalate from there. Not end-of-the-world if it doesn't work, but definitely worth the effort. I have made shitty choices of woman earlier on and wanted to be with someone better. Long-term goal of asking her to prom, as I want to look back at that night and know I made a good decision for once, but that's later on. Ask if you need additional information about me, her, or anything relating to this.

Author:  guangwang1983 [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 11:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Re-opening someone i used to have a thing with

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Recently i have been thinking about the type of girl that would be right for me. The one on my list that seemed to be the best for me was this girl that i used to have a thing with when i was an AFC couple years ago. In my Sophomore year we had 3 classes together and would lightly converse and flirt with each other. Obviously in my AFC days I did not get anywhere and it died. The next year we had 1 class together. I made her laugh when i yelled out funny comments in class and she would look over and stare at me every once in awhile in class. I still never did anything about her, because I was not pursuing her that year or have the ability to get her if I wanted. This year we have no classes together and the only time I see her is in the parking lot or in the hall talking with her friend at her locker.

Additional information- She follows my Instagram and likes my pictures occasionally. She doesn't like anyone else's photos except mine and one other dude's(not a threat) pics. She is generally a quiet person, but used to open up to me, which was a surprise for how quiet she was.

This will be a challenge. I need some help with how I should approach this situation, I was thinking about saying Hi to her in the parking lot when I get my car situation fixed and escalate from there. Not end-of-the-world if it doesn't work, but definitely worth the effort. I have made shitty choices of woman earlier on and wanted to be with someone better. Long-term goal of asking her to prom, as I want to look back at that night and know I made a good decision for once, but that's later on. Ask if you need additional information about me, her, or anything relating to this.
Sounds like you have never spoken with her before. It is very simple, just be a man and go talk to her if you see her next time! From what you told me, I can guarantee you nothing bad will happen. It almost sounds like she might even have a secret crush on you, if there is anything. Just remember she is a shy girl, she would not in a million year initiate anything until you say anything first. So be the cause and open her up!

God I miss high school and college years....

Author:  HSP [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 3:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Re-opening someone i used to have a thing with

We did talk, we used to be in the same social circle for awhile. I even almost got her number, but was too afraid back then. I appreciate the advice to go talk to her and I will, but where would you suggest I do it? I need a game plan to get myself started. Worth mentioning that I am still friends with two of her friends back from that year, not sure how close her and they are now though.

Author:  guangwang1983 [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 3:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Re-opening someone i used to have a thing with

You dont need a game plan in this game, because nothing bad will happen if you screw it up. If you want to prepare, just think of something which both girls and boys will be interested in. So no computer game or football. If I were you, I will just go to her in the cantine and try to get some lunch together. Then say it is very interesting talking to you and get her phone number and then a date.

Just be strong and talk to her.

Author:  HSP [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 8:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Re-opening someone i used to have a thing with

Thanks dude, appreciate it

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