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Author:  SilverTongued [ Sat Nov 16, 2013 8:53 pm ]
Post subject:  AFC first approach, what's next?
Maybe a stupid statement in itself but I am in a bind over here.
I first saw this girl in a store when I was with some rather annoying friends. HB 8-9, beautiful eyes, blah blah blah you know where I am going with this. I did ask her for directions but that was before I noticed her (just turned around, saw her back and went to ask for directions).
Next week I am in the same store and I go up to her, tell her that there was something I wanted to tell her but didn't get the an opportunity the last time. She said she remembers my accent(I am a brit) and she likes it.
I make her laugh a bit and then tell her that she has probably the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen(true fact). I tell her that having said that I was going to melt into the floor because I don't usually do this to which she said that she probably would(I have no idea what she meant by that though). A couple of more laughs later, I asked her if she would have a cup of coffee with me to which she said she had a BF(The whole "Awww I am sorry, I would love to but I have a BF" thing).
The idiot being me instead of being cheeky went with the "It's not a big deal" way and took my arse out.

Now given that I go to the store every now and then, how on earth do I approach her or do I just walk away and forget about it?
My intro thread(yet-another-introduction-thread-vt171569.html) pretty much explained my social situation right now.
Cheers

P.s:Pardon my n00bness xD
Author:  oceanx [ Sat Nov 16, 2013 10:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: AFC first approach, what's next?
Don't sweat it bro, we've all been there at the beginning of our "careers" :D

You were too nervous and possibly too "nice" on the approach. Her "aww that's sweet" type reply is a giveaway for that. The ONLY way you are going to be able to pull the # of the next superhottie you want is to get out there and keep at it - keep approaching, keep stumbling, keep tweaking your presentations and you will get there - maybe sooner than you think. In your posting that u linked to u state u have a night job. That is a perfect opportunity to get out during the day & do more approaches. I would advise to stay away from the hired help in general, as they are paid to be nice to you. It was just 1 girl there are 3.5 billion more of them, keep going.

As far as re-approaching this girl, I would think the only way to get her interested at this point would be to pop in there when you're out with another girl, and then stop by a few days later by yourself and take the shot 1 last time.
Author:  SilverTongued [ Sun Nov 17, 2013 2:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: AFC first approach, what's next?
Quote:
Don't sweat it bro, we've all been there at the beginning of our "careers" :D

You were too nervous and possibly too "nice" on the approach. Her "aww that's sweet" type reply is a giveaway for that. The ONLY way you are going to be able to pull the # of the next superhottie you want is to get out there and keep at it - keep approaching, keep stumbling, keep tweaking your presentations and you will get there - maybe sooner than you think. In your posting that u linked to u state u have a night job. That is a perfect opportunity to get out during the day & do more approaches. I would advise to stay away from the hired help in general, as they are paid to be nice to you. It was just 1 girl there are 3.5 billion more of them, keep going.

As far as re-approaching this girl, I would think the only way to get her interested at this point would be to pop in there when you're out with another girl, and then stop by a few days later by yourself and take the shot 1 last time.
I guess I really was being too nice. I am trying to get rid of AA by following what is written on this thread(overcoming-approach-anxiety-vt1672.html). Somedays are easy, somedays I feel that the only way to talk to a hottie that I see is to be nice, but I do see your point when you say that 'hired' help are paid to be nice to others.

I met up with another girl at starbucks today, got her interested, I was getting all the IOIs but never really acted on it. I think that is THE thing in my case, either I am too eager to pull the trigger or I don't at all and the moments passed by. At least in this case I know that I'll be seeing her again. Oh well Carpe Diem.
Thanks for the reply man
Cheers
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