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| Author: | ntogame [ Mon Nov 11, 2013 1:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Best way to go out alone |
Hey everyone does anybody have any tips for going out alone? |
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| Author: | WGY [ Mon Nov 11, 2013 2:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best way to go out alone |
First, I AM NOT EXPERT or MASTER at PU. Second, I did go out on my own last Friday and had a blast. I'm 50 (aka Old Geezer) and even I had four opportunities. Why do I say opportunities? Could I not have picked up at least one? Sure. But I wasn't ready and I wasn't hungry. I went out with a great attitude. I didn't look or feel anxious. I didn't look for feel desperate. I just went out looking to 'F' with women. Simply start a conversation, maybe flirt a little, but that's it. Silly? No. I think for me, the women kind felt non threatened but also kinda turned on when I flirted with them. ALSO DO USE KINO!!!!! I love to touch women and believe me, if they are comfortable being around you, they WILL NOT mind. This is NOT pickup by any means, but hey, work(ed) for me. Just a thought. -WY |
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| Author: | StuDuck [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 3:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best way to go out alone |
Go out with the mindset of meeting people and making new friends, both male and female. These people may not become your new best buddies but if you have regular hangouts and meet lots of people, soon you wont be going out alone but rather going out to meet new people plus bump into people you know. Personally I like going out to places where noone knows me when trying out new stuff as I feel more empowered, its like if it screws up I can just walk away and noone knows. Of course this is just a limiting belief in my own head and TBH it dosent matter if things screw up but Im not trying to fix that at the moment so thats just what I do. After I meet a few groups I tell people that they are my friends ( I havent tried merging groups yet) but noone is going to go over and interrogate them and as I am talking to these "friends" occasionally throughout the night people just assume I know them.... and guess what I do know them!! just not as well as I make out. Until I meet say 3 groups I just say Im waiting for my friends to arrive. I use the gambit of my two buddies are coming up from a nearby city and they rang me 30 mins ago to say they would be late. Rather than stay in and wait for them I decided to wait in town because I was hyped up and ready to go out.... How do you guys know eachother? Later in the night if I bump into them again I say they went to the wrong club but since I have bumped into X and Y and maybe point over at set 2 or 3 and say I think Im going to stay longer... fuck em dumbasses went to the wrong club (and laugh like its no big deal). People just arent really going to look much deeper than that. Eventually you walk into a place and bump into people you have met before, you go over, talk for a bit and then if people ask.. you came to see them. |
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| Author: | StuDuck [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 3:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best way to go out alone |
THings that Im working on right now. Dont drink.. If Im going out solo I dont drink. Im looking into voice recording. Partly because it lets me review things later and partly because it motivates me. I go out with a target number of sets to open. I cant kid myself if its on tape. |
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| Author: | afcAL [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 3:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best way to go out alone |
Since my buddies burn me when I fail, going out alone doesn't seem to bad! Al |
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