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| Author: | Cross Fire [ Sat Sep 28, 2013 5:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
A girl I met said to me right on the start: "You look like one who gets straight A's", with sort of hidden contempt, like "you look like a boring geek\nice guy". And then she turned to other people who were with us and didn't notice me again. I had no idea what to say. I couldn't deny it, because (A) It's a compliment, and I'd look stupid trying to contradict her, and (B) It's true, and the other people knew it. Can you help me come up with a good response? I thought maybe saying something about her being shallow and believe in stereotypes, but I don't think negativity will do good here... Any help? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Sat Sep 28, 2013 9:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
Quote: A girl I met said to me right on the start: "You look like one who gets straight A's", with sort of hidden contempt, like "you look like a boring geek\nice guy". And then she turned to other people who were with us and didn't notice me again.
Snarky women are good times.I had no idea what to say. I couldn't deny it, because (A) It's a compliment, and I'd look stupid trying to contradict her, and (B) It's true, and the other people knew it. Can you help me come up with a good response? I thought maybe saying something about her being shallow and believe in stereotypes, but I don't think negativity will do good here... Any help? "You look like you should wear the letter 'A' on your shirt" "Cute shirt." Point at shoes "Walmart?" Point at floor "You dropped a tampon." "Are you hitting on me?" |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sat Sep 28, 2013 11:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
dont look for witty zingers, clever Bon-mots, and inspired rejoinders. You need to get your frame correct and inner game together or you will be always at a loss when shit-tested |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 12:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
Yeah man, fuck that. She shook your frame and you let her. You need to work on inner game. If you had good inner game you wouldn't have thought anything of it, just that it was true and worked around it or ignored it and grabbed the groups attention by continuing with a story or whatever you wanted to say. Strong frame = strong game. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 4:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
Quote: dont look for witty zingers, clever Bon-mots, and inspired rejoinders. You need to get your frame correct and inner game together or you will be always at a loss when shit-tested
Or just because it's fucking funny. Life doesn't need to be so fucking dry. Sometimes when you enter an unknown curve, instead of hitting the brakes, hit the fucking gas. Dry game = Dry dick. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 7:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
is that a 64 Coronet on your pix heywood? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 1:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
Quote: is that a 64 Coronet on your pix heywood?
'62 Buick special ...bad ass
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 4:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
I like the black on black but Mopar would have been a better for a 62' |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 9:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
Quote: I like the black on black but Mopar would have been a better for a 62'
Naw, it's based on the Chevy 2 platform, original 'fireball' V6. The swap will likely be a crate 8, save the six on the side. The last Mopar was a 40. |
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| Author: | just-some-guy [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 9:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
id say in that situation i would have either said "why thank you" in a cocky way. maybe laughed dismissively first. negging back immediately is weak |
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| Author: | Playersjourney [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 10:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
Here's your new mantra: Everything you do is right! Everything! There is no shame in your game whatsoever. You're underdressed? It's cool, you like to be casual. You're overdressed? It's cool, you like to look nice. You spend a lot of money? Hey, you're enjoying life. You're thrifty? I'm smart with my money. NEVER FUCKING FORGET THAT EVERYTHING YOU DO IS RIGHT. When this girl shit-tested you by saying "you look like you get all As" you should have looked deep into her eyes and said "Yeah, I worked hard in school because I didn't want to work at Wal Mart when I grew up. What kind of grades did you get"? Alternatively... "I'm sorry is it not cool to get good grades? I guess that's how people think in [whatever shit town you're in]" Alternatively... "Yes I did get good grades. Do you need help with your homework?" BOOM! |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 10:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
Chevy small block or Edlebrock? |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 10:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
Looks like a chevy. What's with Muscle cars anyway? They're slow, handle like shit and cost an arm and a leg to drive. Why not get a nice Jap import. They're light, faster, handle better and don't drink gas like there's no tomorrow. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Sep 30, 2013 12:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
Quote: Chevy small block or Edlebrock?
A simple jasper small block, Edlebrock intake, plain Jane quadrajet. Just a bar hopper not a door blower. Quote: They're slow, handle like shit and cost an arm and a leg to drive. Why not get a nice Jap import. They're light, faster, handle better and don't drink gas like there's no tomorrow.
0% cool. 0% Romance. Today I rode my 1985 Tour Glide (1st belt drive) with 3 R6's, I was dead last every time. But only just behind. EVERY single one of their girls want a ride from Heywood. I was twice as wide, twice as long, twice the weight, twice as loud. Why take the easy route, why be like all the rest? |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Mon Sep 30, 2013 1:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negged by a girl - how would you reply? |
I feel ya I have a 67' Firebird with a 389 from a 65' Goat, I swapped out the Holly Quadrajet (which was a tuning and starting nightmare) for the tamer Edglebrock carb but I should have went with the beefer one. |
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