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| Author: | invincible1 [ Mon Sep 02, 2013 4:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Direct approach on campus? Smart or stupid? |
Keep in mind that I go to a school w/ no dorm, so it's basically a 4 year with a community college SPAM? Do you do it/have done it? There any no parties at ths school or anything & thousands of people. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Mon Sep 02, 2013 4:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct approach on campus? Smart or stupid? |
Just do it. It's probably the most laid back SPAM and the biggest reason to start talking to anyone. If you go there and they study there too why wouldn't you try and make friends anyway? Just be nice, open on them and be friendly. You've a number of excuses to initiate and come back to them "Hi, do you know where sociology is?" "Are you studying here too? I think i've seen you in my class before. I missed last weeks lecture..." blah, blah, then go to mid game and tell her you'll see her around. From then on you can always just smile at this person and grab them to the side for a chat or whatever. Then you can make up an excuse to get them out for a few friendly pints. Keep interest high, use the social setting as an excuse for them to go out and have fun with you and then play your game if you're comfortable with it when you're all out. |
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| Author: | invincible1 [ Thu Sep 12, 2013 4:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct approach on campus? Smart or stupid? |
Bump, just looking to get a few more opinions. |
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| Author: | Kraint [ Thu Sep 12, 2013 4:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct approach on campus? Smart or stupid? |
I go to a university with thousands of people parties and the whole shebang, BUTTT it is largely commuter base. my recommendation is do it, why? instead of meeting up on campus its easier to meet in a better location. and as far direct approach I was on the crosswalk day 1 and started a convo with this girl. better one yet, I was at the union making eye contact, got an IOI let her walk away about 10ft then walked behind and straight asked for her number and got it before i knew her name. point being, I've realized that in college you just need a good way to approach and its all good from there. I'm still working on mid game so i can get more closes but opening in college isnt as hard as you may think. even in college i follow a rule: every girl is single until told where i usually ask an indirect question to find out if she has one or not |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Thu Sep 12, 2013 5:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct approach on campus? Smart or stupid? |
dont go indirect and use innocuous banal prattle as an segway to a successful close. without being extremely good looking or having social value/proof coming into the interaction your going to come off a a random dude trying to feebly hit on her with a crappy/unknown value proposition. |
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| Author: | danpalasz [ Thu Sep 12, 2013 3:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct approach on campus? Smart or stupid? |
Would also really like to know if this would work, could i really go college and meet and random girl and randomly ask her to fuck? and ever done this? what were the response ? to me it would be kinda funny |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Thu Sep 12, 2013 3:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct approach on campus? Smart or stupid? |
Quote: Would also really like to know if this would work, could i really go college and meet and random girl and randomly ask her to fuck? and ever done this? what were the response ? to me it would be kinda funny
Depends on the girl. There's women out there who are DTF with little effort and will gladly go to your bed but the majority require some kind of rapport no matter how attractive you are.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxyySRgrYsU See the differing opinions and reactions? One chick is DTF but wants a bit more effort put into it and a bit more rapport. Another chick just flat out throws water in his face. The majority of reactions are quite tame and aren't insulting. It's a decent look into what to expect when you approach a woman(Probably good for AA videos!). Even guys can be hesitant with beautiful women asking to fuck them there and then. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JJFBtHcBnM |
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| Author: | AFC Stevie J. [ Thu Sep 12, 2013 6:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct approach on campus? Smart or stupid? |
I go to an actual community college at the moment so i understand where the OP is coming from. The main thing I do is when I'm in the cafeteria chilling with my friends I try to strike up conversations with near HBs since they all tend to stop through. However there's plenty more that I would like to approach around the campus but I don't know how to go about it without looking creepy. Do I just let them go? what if the're going to class? there's so many factors to it and I was wondering if anyone had good advice for approaching around a campus or if it were even possible. |
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| Author: | Assamita [ Thu Sep 12, 2013 6:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct approach on campus? Smart or stupid? |
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| Author: | invincible1 [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 7:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct approach on campus? Smart or stupid? |
So yeah, just approaching them and be direct w/ your intentions are is the best way on campus? obviously not flat out saying I want to fuck lol... |
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| Author: | Harkness [ Sat Sep 14, 2013 12:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct approach on campus? Smart or stupid? |
Quote: Keep in mind that I go to a school w/ no dorm, so it's basically a 4 year with a community college SPAM?
I go to a campus university with no dorm, much like you, and to get over my approach anxiety, I'd walk right up to girls and introduce myself. That's when I realised that Uni is probably the BEST place to make a casual approach outside of a bar, especially at the start of the year. Everyone's around the same age and have one in common. (The Uni) so you've always got something to fall back on.Do you do it/have done it? There any no parties at ths school or anything & thousands of people. I've found that some of my best pickups and number closes result from direct approaches at Uni. |
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