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Author:  Acclaim [ Sun May 05, 2013 1:05 pm ]
Post subject:  How can you force IOIs if girls don't even look at you?

So Gambler talks about forcing IOIs, but if girls don't even pay you attention how is it possible? Not that it really matters because I just assume attraction. But I would be interested to know if it's possible, so what do you guys think?

Author:  Darkie [ Sun May 05, 2013 5:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can you force IOIs if girls don't even look at you?

I would like to learn more on this topic as well but from what i've learned so far..peacocking, proximity or sometimes being sociable with another stranger near by can generate ioi's

Author:  SirJoseppi [ Mon May 06, 2013 5:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can you force IOIs if girls don't even look at you?

Wouldn't mind some responses on this one as well!

Author:  Cool Hand Luke [ Mon May 06, 2013 6:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can you force IOIs if girls don't even look at you?

Depends on the situation... Bump into them if in bar or club. Honk your horn and pull up beside them in a car, etc.
What is the situation where they are not looking at you...need more information. In mall? highschool? funeral?
Gambler's forcing IOI's is very effective, I use it all the time. After watching the video it really improved my game.

Author:  SirJoseppi [ Mon May 06, 2013 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can you force IOIs if girls don't even look at you?

Happen to have a link with the video?

Thanks for the info!

Author:  Acclaim [ Tue May 07, 2013 2:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can you force IOIs if girls don't even look at you?

When gambler says it, he generally means the club obviously. That's the one place where girls notoriously don't acknowledge guys. All I can say so far is DHV to get there attention. Make yourself known in a boss manner, then these girls might perk up and take notice:D

Author:  Weekend [ Mon May 13, 2013 4:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can you force IOIs if girls don't even look at you?

All right, I don't know how Gambler does it - but I can elaborate on how I usually do it!

Assuming we are dealing with a club environment here, what I would do is first of all scan for the girl(s) I know kindda get it. To me this is key. It is the basis of me getting trough to her with no wording.
All right, after I picked out a girl I keep an eye on her while chatting up people, dancing, ordering a drink etc. I then move towards her while looking at her with that "you're mine" look. Passing close to her. If she looks up (She always do) I would look into her eyes as I pass, slipping the eye-contact as passed. Now I got that eye contact thing going, so I'll be bringing it up as I see her again...

In the case that she doesn't look at me, I would consider bumping into her, and firing off that eye-contact thing again.
Eventually, I would approach her - but usually in a casual way, such as bumping into her ión the dancefloor, looking at her and saying "Hi. who are you?" in a flirtatious way.

But, yeah one way of doing it.

Please comment or share your experience!

/Weekend/

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon May 13, 2013 5:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can you force IOIs if girls don't even look at you?

Quote:
When gambler says it, he generally means the club obviously. That's the one place where girls notoriously don't acknowledge guys. All I can say so far is DHV to get there attention. Make yourself known in a boss manner, then these girls might perk up and take notice:D
This is what I do...

Before I even go into the bar (as I am walking from my car) find a group of 2 or 3 girls and say "Hey guys, I'm not from around here but I wanted to check out some of the bars/clubs in the area. Cool if I tag along with you all until we get inside? I'll buy you your first round of drinks for being so friendly." (most girls don't mind having a guy with them because it keeps other guys from hitting on them. Girls don't go out to get hit on... They go out to have a good time. Just be friendly with these girls. It's AFC as fuck but they aren't your target.)

Now you have created a scenario for yourself where you are seen walking into the venue with 3 girls and have already created a set you can return to and backwards merge with or if you happen to not find a set to approach (you are there with "friends" now)

Buy them their first round of drinks and hang out for a bit just keeping friendly, fun conversation and you will notice the IOIs start to FLY at you due to preselection...

Or...

When you first get to the bar... Ask to speak to a manager. Tell him you are looking to throw a party sometime soon (make some bullshit up... Sell it.) and ask him for a tour of the place. Buy him and yourself a beer... Next thing you know... You are now seen walking around the bar/club with a manager. People have no idea what is being said or what you are walking with the manager for... They can only make assumptions based on what they see. You will be seen as a high value guy.

Both work very well for getting IOIs from all over the place and truly becoming "THE MAN" in the room.

Author:  sthepvanss [ Thu May 16, 2013 3:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can you force IOIs if girls don't even look at you?

Do something to get their attention. I mean Steve Jabba used to dance hilariously to get attention.

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