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Author:  j123 [ Sun Feb 03, 2008 11:24 pm ]
Post subject:  picking up girls at clubs
This is something i've always had problems with. Any tips?
Author:  Ubium [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 12:44 am ]
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Well the club setting is of course different. In my experience the girls are different too. With that in mind it is hard to run routines if the music is overly loud. If you are going to be opening set chances are it will be a group of close friends. In clubs you have to be well versed in opening, stacking, and isolating the girl. Building attraction can be achieved by DHV's and social power.
Author:  Illusion. [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 2:04 am ]
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Well firstly, picking girls up girls in clubs is more difficult than say, the coffee shop or book shop. Because of things like noise and in if your in a club, a girl is more likely to think your trying to hit on her, which of course you are :P

Anyway, always speak as loud as possible without going blue in the face like some Army Drill Sargeant, and make sure you have sorted out your posture and use of Kino, (to show her that your a confident friendly guy)

Plus most clubs ive been into have like quieter areas where the music isnt so deafening.
Author:  Frozec [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 5:27 am ]
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Clubs are a tough place to pick up girls......my rule of thumb when at a club is use your image.....posture and what your doing is key.....I have noticed if you walk around the club with ur head up and act like your important girls will notice you...also try not to just stand around the dance floor if ur not dancing and don't lien on the walls also..... another thing depends on a clubs layout....need to find an area thats not to loud but were the action is at....the dance floor is a NO GO ZONE........unless u can dance...even then just goin up and grind with a girl is a hit or miss.....I perfer to chill out by the Bar area with a drink wait for some girl to stroll over and order something and then work my game.....I also target girls who look like there not havin any fun or not dancing........I normal open with "So I guess you paided (insert cover charge) to just stand around and look pretty....." I throw in some other stuff pending on the girl. In general CLUBS SUCK....go in large numbers to make you look important....but I love goin to clubs
Author:  rockin_out [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 6:08 am ]
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"I have noticed if you walk around the club with ur head up and act like your important girls will notice you.."

Mystery says NOT to do that, because by walking around, you're DLV'ing yourself, looking around for girls on the prowl. It can make you seem needy.
Author:  Student X [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 9:29 am ]
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Of course, "prowling" is a huge DLV,

But walking when ENTERING the club, posture, quiet confidence and a smile. I made a conscious effort on one of my first times as an RAFC at a club, whilst entering the first room with a friend, and the whole room (3/4 of the room) looked round, a big group of girls noticed me, their AFC's dudes were like "hey, who are they looking at?" etc etc. Domino effect.

Like rockin said, prowling is a DLV, but also, LOOKING like you are prowling is just as bad a DLV. Alpha comfort, and inner game comfort, purpose within surroundings and situation at the club, should not DLV, and can on a subconscious, and extremely important level, DHV.

Student X...
Author:  ImTheBest [ Wed Feb 13, 2008 1:00 am ]
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I just put this in beginners questions as im really new to all of this and well I think basically you cannot open sets in this environment because it's just too loud. I think as mentioned above by illusion :

"a girl is more likely to think your trying to hit on her, which of course you are"

This is definitely the case but I think this is what single girls come to clubs for most of the time. This is different from most situations you PUA's will find themselves in but as I said in my first post, this is pretty much THE situation a British student has other than just meeting people randomly throughout the day as we do not hang out in bars.
I think as you can only talk to one person at a time you must Kino more and not have really lengthy conversations as the music is so loud. But as I said i'm the one who needs the advice here more than for me to be giving it out.
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