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| Author: | TheLionWithin [ Wed May 01, 2013 11:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to go after a 2nd girl in a social circle, and should I? |
So the "should I" part relates to social intelligence here more than game per se. Note that I do very much want to keep this social circle in-tact, and preferably not mess things up with the girl I'm currently gaming ("girl #1"), so if you think that's impossible and it's always best to just stick to one girl per social circle, please let me know that. Here's the situation: Girl #1 I met at a birthday party through mutual friends, haven't gotten her out on a date yet. If you want more detail about her and my current issue with getting her out, read help-getting-this-cutie-out-on-a-date-vt161469.html. If not, it's really not necessary to read that. On with the relevant info. Girl #2 was not at the party. At the party, the social circle definitely observed that I was into girl #1 and vice versa. One of the pics I had taken and uploaded to Facebook was one with me looking like The Man, with girl #1 and her friend on either side of me. This pic has gotten one comment, by girl #2, saying (translated from Spanish): "oooh who is this hunky man? Introduce please hahaha!" None of our mutual friends have moved to introduce us. So obviously I haven't met girl #2 yet. I also haven't dated girl #1 yet, but I'd prefer her if you guys tell me I have to choose. Don't get me wrong, girl #2 is definitely cute too, and I'd have no hesitations to go for it if not for girl #1. If you guys think I can still date girl #2 while keeping the social circle in-tact and getting invited back to parties, explain how you would do it. Should I friend and message her myself? Should I like her comment? Should I ask one of our mutual friends to introduce us (even though they know about girl #1)? How should I do it, or why shouldn't I do it? |
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| Author: | Mantissa00 [ Thu May 02, 2013 1:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to go after a 2nd girl in a social circle, and shoul |
Basically you need to figure out if their friends or if they talk a lot. Tbh tho bro just go for one. I wouldn't approach the situation like anything is a done deal. Properly go for girl 1 and if possible keep girl 2 entertained. You can use girl 2 as a tool to get girl 1. Muster up some drama by chatting and flirting with her while continuing things with girl 1. If girl 1 questions things or gives you shit, don't panic, that's good. This is where you turn her around and she will love you for it. Tell her that you liked her and you were just playing around with girl 2. Don't be a pussy. You have done this before and know what your doing, you have the mentality that you always get what you want. |
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| Author: | TheLionWithin [ Thu May 02, 2013 2:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to go after a 2nd girl in a social circle, and shoul |
Alright thanks, so should I just friend girl #2 and message her, not pussyfooting around with liking her comment or anything? And what's a good opener, direct or indirect? I'm much better with RL game than online game actually, I have such a low hit rate online it's ridiculous. Any tips for how to start with her over Facebook, and how far I should escalate? You say just keep her entertained, not even try to get her number or meet her in person? |
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| Author: | TheLionWithin [ Thu May 02, 2013 2:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to go after a 2nd girl in a social circle, and shoul |
And I guess if girl #2 got too excited and really wanted to meet me but girl #1 wasn't catching, I'd be cool switching targets and if girl #1 gets mad, tell her "I'm sorry but I told you I don't play games, you had your shot and you'll find another guy, I'll even help you." and make her into a wing girl lol |
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| Author: | Mantissa00 [ Thu May 02, 2013 12:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to go after a 2nd girl in a social circle, and shoul |
I would message her, but make sure you don't act too serious about things. What I mean is, she just messaged you to flirt with you, but this could have been a temporary emotion that she had one night. It does mean something but make sure you don't fall into the category of a guy who when a girl complements him thinks she is dtf straight from the get go. This is more of a sign for you to go in and it sets the frame up to your advantage but you still need to go through the motions rather than turning up with a condom. She wants you more than you want her. Yeah just message her playfully. Mix in a bit of teasing, with a drop that you know (and really get on with) one of her friends. Blah blah. Keep teasing and playing then meet up with her for a night out. Again you are after girl 1. This is just a game on the side. Naturally having this mentality will actually help you game girl 1 because she will pick up on this and will be attracted to your abundance mentality. It's that horrible dichotomy for women (and men?), that women are naturally attracted to the thing that they battle against, a man with an abundance of women. Its a contradiction of emotions, no wonder women are so ambivalent ey? |
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| Author: | TheLionWithin [ Thu May 02, 2013 4:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to go after a 2nd girl in a social circle, and shoul |
Thanks a lot man. This is the best text game I've ever had so far. I've got girl #2 qualifying myself to me big time and jumping through all my hoops. However at the same time, she surprises me with her confidence. For instance, early on I said "so I heard u like hunky guys. Is that true? " where I'd expect a girl to giggle and say "maybe " she simply said "I'm a girl. I like guys " so I responded "good honest answer. I like women, but I like ones who are creative and interesting. Tell me, if u could be any animal, what would it be and why? " this question I got from a female dating coach, to be used to keep her interest texting between meeting her and taking her out (in other words, comfort) whereas I used it in attract to bait her to qualify herself to me. But it still has the dual purpose of building comfort as well. It seems to be very effective to double stack attract and comfort like this. Right now, I've got her where she wanted to know my sign, and I gave her a hint saying "think of an animal that, when he takes a good whiff of his prey, isn't afraid to look it dead in the eye. " she didn't guess it right away, so I said I had to go and good night. She then sent me four more messages: "bye " "lion " "but I think all animals do that " "lol ". So she's super engaged now and its been 12 hours since I've responded. Any ideas on where to go next? |
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| Author: | Mantissa00 [ Fri May 03, 2013 2:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to go after a 2nd girl in a social circle, and shoul |
Cheers bro I'll take a look. Hope Afghanistan is good. |
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