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Author:  eddy247 [ Sun Apr 21, 2013 4:22 am ]
Post subject:  Tried this Opener, didn't work! (club environment)
Hey guys, i'm new to pua but have had some success with pretty boring openers like "hi what's your name" then gone on to win the target over. I was out last night and thought I would try to surprise a HB9 by opening with "hey could you show me your tits".. i'm being serious but I thought it would be funny.. w/e... but she didn't slap me or anything but said no, turned to her mate and prolly told her.. didn't really know what to do so I walked off. Just asking really if this is just a no no or maybe I coulda done something? I was hoping she would just be surprised and put on the back foot cos she was so hot and obviously socialized.

Also quite often openers seem to slightly show that you are interested in the person you open to, so if they have a BF then they will tell you to f off.. what openers can just convey a friendly hey or w/e and start a convo where you can evaluate the group, see who's most interested and then switch targets?

Happily accepting criticism, abuse, w/e I'm not gonna cry :)
Author:  fuckyeah [ Sun Apr 21, 2013 6:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Tried this Opener, didn't work! (club environment)
Wow man that was pretty ballsy! I wouldn't recommend opening with that, but I suppose something like this could work:

you: "hey could you show me your tits?"

her: *Surprised* "wtf?"

you: "haha I am SO joking! *ask friend* "does she always respond so negatively when guys give her attention?"

you: "haha actually I don't blame you, I hate when girls I don't even know just come up to me and grab my ass or ask me to take my shirt off, It's like come on, I am not just a piece of meat ya know!" *roll eyes* ... anyway...

This would probably only work if the girls have really good senses of humor. To be honest it's most likely better to just stick with a neutral opinion opener. Just think of any question that you sincerely want other people's opinion on and that you have a lot to say about. The goal is for you to not initially show her any attraction - you just honestly want her opinion. This way she won't feel threatened even if she actually does have a bf. Remember that you and her initially know nothing about one another and by showing attraction right from the start you are portraying that she is the prize and that you are here to chase her. This not only should be the other way around, but it could also scare her away and potentially cause her to do things like lie about having a bf.

Hope this helps!

- Fuckyeah

p.s. If you actually just want a girl to show you her tits, tell her it's your birthday and all that all you want is to see some tits. This has actually worked for me on a few occasions. Obviously this won't work on every girl, but you'll be surprised.
Author:  QLDplayerinthemaking [ Sun Apr 21, 2013 6:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Tried this Opener, didn't work! (club environment)
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Also quite often openers seem to slightly show that you are interested in the person you open to, so if they have a BF then they will tell you to f off.. what openers can just convey a friendly hey or w/e and start a convo where you can evaluate the group, see who's most interested and then switch targets?
I find that opening a girl in a 2 set is quite difficult because as you say the best friend quickly becomes bored/ jealous or what ever and cock blocks you pretty quickly.

If possible i try to open a girl who is in at least a group of 3 because the other 2 friends in the group have each other to talk to at least.

If i do open a girl in a 2 set, i quickly try to get my target to introduce me to her friend and get her involved in the conversation at least a little. This has backfired on me before though because the girls aren't really sure who I am interested in.

Still fairly new to this myself but hope it helps
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