Quote: here's the deal. although i can describe myself as pretty much a newbie to pua, when it comes to talking to girls i can make some pretty basic small talk before getting their number easily as well as becoming friends with them on facebook. i'm just really having trouble creating initial attraction with a girl i like unless she is already attacted to me. i can make small talk like "hey whats up" "whats ur name" "hows it going/how's ur day going " or a dumb comment about something currently happening at the moment or tell a silly story, but otherwise i am at a loss as of what to say ( not including pickup lines) . anyways even the times i do manage to get through all this i cant seem to get things to the next level, if you know what i mean.... any tips on what i could say or do or whether i should try a different approach if i want to get a girl faster. btw im halfway done with high school, so preferably advice pertaining to H.S. (that i could use mainly in school but also outside of my school, since there are very few girls at my school, and its hard to get the attractive/hot ones since there are so few of them.
btw in this thread im asking for advice pertaining to talking to them in person initially before texting/fb messaging them.
High school & college gaming is different then "the game" that is told in the majority of the books / advices we give. This is because your social status comes into play - yes, very much so in HS and even in colleges (big ones too) you have to be that guy that EVERYONE knows. Pretend to be everyone's friend, even if you hate them, fake it - you don't have to be the one to spend hours with the ppl you hate, just be neutral with them.
Before you get into college, I wish I read this before, read Conquer Your Campus and learn from it. It will help you a lot. Outside of that, do NOT use "pick-up lines." I have only see one pick-up line to work, and it won't help you in this case due to your age / location.
Again, build your social status - it is never too late to do it. Just be friendly and "chill" and the girls will come to you. Again, don't show interest until they show it first, act like you don't care since you now have every girl you want at any one time.
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