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| Author: | LarryDavid [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 1:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Easiest opener |
I am in need of some of your guys easiest openers..Are they opinion openers? question? or just a normal hello. I am having some trouble getting past my approach anxiety and need some real easy openers to help become more comfortable. Thanks! |
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| Author: | .Sage. [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 1:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Easiest opener |
The only thing an opener does is set the tone of the conversation. The easiest is "Hi", because then, you can talk about anything. This is opposed to the hardest: "I want you, take off your clothes. NOW. SEX." Moral of the story, do what works for you. |
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| Author: | LarryDavid [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 4:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Easiest opener |
not really what im looking for |
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| Author: | No_Boner [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 9:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Easiest opener |
Quote: ...some trouble...
What trouble exactly! Be specific. How you feel, what you're doing, what you feel you should do at that moment, etc...Ask questions from yourself.Quote: ...need some real easy openers to help become more comfortable...
The more you think about comfort, the more you'll struggle with Approach. First, break AA in all. Do not overthink about approach, follow Mystery's 3 second rule. Concentrate on Approach, not the outcome. Self-correct yourself in-field. Let the initial conversation be slow, implying, you're thinking before you say/act something, later on things will speed up with experience.Get your mood proper, have some fun prior with friends. Comfort is part of mid-game, actually. |
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| Author: | London Chase [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 10:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Easiest opener |
here is one i use all the time step 1 Sara?! Is that you? (huge smile) oh, i thought you are a friend of mine , while your here you mind if i get a personal opinion on something? imbedded command to create comfort |
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| Author: | worldrunner [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 10:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Easiest opener |
To Syx: Quote: The easiest is "Hi", because then, you can talk about anything.
Agree, and the one that I've used more. Quote: This is opposed to the hardest: "I want you, take off your clothes. NOW. SEX."
Disagree, the hardest ever for me is: "Hey Guys, I can't stay long because my friends are waiting but I just need a quick female opinion... Do you guys believe in magic and spells?"to Larry david: Level 1, easy ones: Hi, do you know what is the name of this song? Hi, do you know what time is it? Hi, do you know where is the post office? etc. Level 2 is to add some type of compliment to the person: Hi, I just have to tell you that you look cute Hi, you look so attractive that I've to come and talk to you Hi, that smile of you just made me come over and start talking to you If you want to make things comfortable you can start with the level 1 type of opener many times and once they are very easy for you you can try the level 2 ones. |
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