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Author:  goodOrBad [ Sun Mar 17, 2013 1:15 am ]
Post subject:  Public Openers

Hi,

What are some ways to break the ice apart from hello in the following situations

she is walking towards you
walking in front of you (blonde, nice ass, well dressed)
bus
just sitting down having lunch/reading book in the park/harbour
in a convo with another person

I have tried some situational openers but its usually met with real lack of interest and it just gets awkward
I am finding the walking one the most difficult as they are in a rush and you have limited time.

Author:  officialpoypoy [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 2:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Public Openers

honestly what you say doesnt matter its how you say it that matters, In less than 1 minute of the conversation she wont even remember your opener but heres something Iv tried and worked.

WALKING TOWARDS YOU- *high 5 & smile* Oh Yea! ( no one cant resist a high 5 plus its kino & playful )

WALKING IN FRONT OF YOU- walk towards her and hold her hands. Iv seen videos of it by public prankers like LAHWF and it works theyd smile also Iv tried it and i thought theyd freak out but they actually liked it.

SITTING DOWN- doesnt matter say anything as long as your conveying yourself like a king, I usually sit down too. Remember to sit BESIDE her not on FRONT of her, you can get more closer without appearing needy or leaning.

FRIEND- i dunno say anything, dont be afriad to interrupt, your a KING!

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 9:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Public Openers

Quote:
Hi,

What are some ways to break the ice apart from hello in the following situations

she is walking towards you
walking in front of you (blonde, nice ass, well dressed)
bus
just sitting down having lunch/reading book in the park/harbour
in a convo with another person

I have tried some situational openers but its usually met with real lack of interest and it just gets awkward
I am finding the walking one the most difficult as they are in a rush and you have limited time.
Try using opinion openers instead of situational. A situational opener is very difficult to transition from into a normal conversation and it is also pretty difficult to come up with a situational opener that won't seem like you are hitting on her. These seem like mostly day game scenarios and being direct will usually put you directly into the creep zone.

When a girl is walking TOWARDS you... You have to stop her dead in her tracks. And when I say stop her... I mean STOP her. Get right the fuck in front of her and be DAMN sure that whatever you have to say is more interesting than what ever she is on her way to.

When a girl is walking INFRONT of you... speed up a LITTLE and position yourself next to her. Keep walking along side her and continue the conversation as such (I've walked for BLOCKS in circles talking in a set and she won't even realize that we have walked past the same building 3 times)

On a bus... You will have to place yourself in a position that you can open. I've done this on a train (similar set up) where I sit towards the front and snag a girl as she is walking past. She will either sit down beside me or behind me (or keep walking) and I can continue working from there.

Seated sets... Opinion openers, again, are usually pretty successful. Give the impression that you were "just walking past" open, and as your opener starts to hit (when you know you have their attention)... use a false time constraint and lock yourself in to the table. A false time constraint will let the set feel comfortable with you being there because they won't think you are going to be around for too long. (Which isn't actually what you want to happen but they need to think that initially in order for them to accept you and actually want you to stay.)

And if they are in conversation with someone else... Fucking interrupt them! lol Most sets are going to be engaged in some type of conversation. Especially the ones with the quality girls in it. Most interesting groups of people are not going to be standing around/sitting around in silence. Just make sure your energy level is slightly higher than the group and what ever you have to say is interesting enough to divert their attention from the topic they are talking about. Don't be afraid to interfere with peoples conversation otherwise you will wind up sitting there in silence.

Author:  goodOrBad [ Tue Mar 19, 2013 8:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Public Openers

Cheers. Will try and report back

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