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| Author: | Pedro36 [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 1:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Trouble getting a girl to open up to me. |
Hi guys, I'm new to this site, so this will be first thread posted on this forum. I would consider myself to be fairly new to the art of pickup. I am currently in my freshman year in high school and my social skills interacting with girls have improved tremendously since my days of anxiety back in middle school. But I started watching these pick up artists on youtube to really get to the nuts and bolts of how this works, and how to capitialize on my approaches. All of these videos have helped create a new found confidence in approaching girls. Even though many of my family, friends, and various strangers have said that I'm at the lever of an eight or a nine in terms of attractiveness and that a lot girls would be all over me, that still didn't exactly help cure my anxiety, which ultimately prevented me from entering a serious relationship years ago. However its safe to say that now I have improved my confidence in go up to random girls and get their numbers. With some more research and practice, I should become great at this soon. But today I wanted to share with you guys something thats been going on between this one particular girl and myself. This must have started at least around early February. I started to get to know this girl during our history class we had together and we hit it off pretty well, considering that she was cute and friendly. Then one day at lunch, I went to the table she sat at to talk with one of her friends. Then one of my friends who was sitting there, who had actually known her for quite a long time, started telling me that she had a crush on me. I messaged him on facebook that same night to find out if it was true, and when I asked him how he found out, he said she told him. So the next day, I went to her table to talk to her, and I was surprised that she was acting rather snarky. She was telling me to go away, albeit in a joking way I think, and because I had no idea why she started acting like this, it threw my game off. For the past few weeks I have been going to her after school, attempting to have a conversation with her. However, she still pretends I'm just an annoyance to her, not taking my attempts seriously. This made me think, "Hey, maybe she's just too shy to talk to me in front of her friends." But then later on her friends were tying to tell me that she actually doesn't like me. Another thing thats not helping the situation is the fact that a lot of her guy friends take her phone and send me text messages under her name. It makes me wonder if they're all just messing with me and find this whole ordeal of me and her entertaining. She's still smiling and having fun while I'm pursuing her, so I can't tell if she's just playing hard to get either. The whole thing now makes me wonder if I should just abandon this lead and go talk to other girls instead of just focusing on one girl, or continue pursuing her. Thoughts? |
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