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I have a difficult time opening in the field and when I do open I feel as if I am a little to overconfident and cock sometimes coming off as an asshole. Like for example last night I was gaming at my friends house and was talking to a girl that was being groped by another guy she did kiss me but I had trouble pulling her away. She gave me her number and I texted her today but no response. I was wondering what more I could do to enhance my game in the field. Thanks
ive had this problem before. what i think ive come to realize is that if you rush things and end up kissing too early, since she is just in the spur of the moment (whether drunk or emotional), if she has enough time apart from you to think, then she might regret it. what u have to do is start the whole process over again to reengage those emotions. also, texting can be both good and bad. to figure out if she is at least semi interested, the next day id just text her with a simple "hi" to see if you can get a response. the problem with texting, is that it is so impersonal and there is no way to see if you are actually sincere or not. one good thing, as gay as it sounds, is to practice emoticons (:), o.O, 
, etc...)what ive found out, that its oven better to just call them. if they dont answer the first time after 4-5 rings, hang up without leaving a message. then call back maybe 5 hours or later that same day and if she doesn't answer again, leave a simple message saying to call you back. wait 2 days if she doesnt call you by then and leave her another message along the lines of "you SEEMED cool, and i would have really LIKED to get to know you, but im not going to put my dignity on the line just to try to talk with you. if you REALLY dont want to talk with me, i guess you win."
if u really like her and she still doesnt call you back, wait like a month and just randomly text her out of the blue. hope this helps.