PUA Forum :: How to pick up at high school

High school game is all about having strong social skills and a good social circle. If you think your main problem is continuing conversations with girls, my best advice to you is to make a lot of female friends, and just get used to interacting with them.

Getting a good social circle in high school is all about being confident and having strong inner game. You don't need to be one of the athletes, but think about why athletes are so popular. They are passionate about the sport(s) they play, they care about their bodies and appearence, they are confident in their abilities, and they seem to be going somewhere in life. If you can display that same passion in whatever it is you do, people won't all necessarily like you, but they will respect you, especially if you are confident.

Don't try to game every girl in your school, that's just weird. Be friendly and outgoing and that's a pretty good start.

Author:	Jimbonn [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 5:23 pm ]
Post subject:	How to pick up at high school
Hey guys, I'm very new to this kind of stuff. I am a very shy guy, not the type in which I get very sweaty around girls. It's just that I don't know how to continue conversations with them. Girls would come and tell me "Hi how are you?" and I would just reply "Fine" I'm too shy to continue. I am also too shy to sit next to them let alone talk to them. What are some ways that can boost my confidence to get me talking to girls in high schools and be attractive around them. I don't necessarily want to seduce them, I just want them to be attracted.

Author:	GGplayer [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 5:39 pm ]
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High school game is all about having strong social skills and a good social circle. If you think your main problem is continuing conversations with girls, my best advice to you is to make a lot of female friends, and just get used to interacting with them. Getting a good social circle in high school is all about being confident and having strong inner game. You don't need to be one of the athletes, but think about why athletes are so popular. They are passionate about the sport(s) they play, they care about their bodies and appearence, they are confident in their abilities, and they seem to be going somewhere in life. If you can display that same passion in whatever it is you do, people won't all necessarily like you, but they will respect you, especially if you are confident. Don't try to game every girl in your school, that's just weird. Be friendly and outgoing and that's a pretty good start.

Author:	Jimbonn [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 6:40 pm ]
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Quote: High school game is all about having strong social skills and a good social circle. If you think your main problem is continuing conversations with girls, my best advice to you is to make a lot of female friends, and just get used to interacting with them. Getting a good social circle in high school is all about being confident and having strong inner game. You don't need to be one of the athletes, but think about why athletes are so popular. They are passionate about the sport(s) they play, they care about their bodies and appearence, they are confident in their abilities, and they seem to be going somewhere in life. If you can display that same passion in whatever it is you do, people won't all necessarily like you, but they will respect you, especially if you are confident. Don't try to game every girl in your school, that's just weird. Be friendly and outgoing and that's a pretty good start. Yes, that's what I am lacking strong social skills. I am not necessarily part of the guys that no one knows. Everyone knows me and I am kind of popular in the school. However, around girls I think most of them know that I am fairly quite and shy which doesn't boost my confidence at all. It makes me want to sit with the guys the whole time, and when a girl goes up to one of the guys and I am next to them I just walk away.

Author:	GGplayer [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 6:45 pm ]
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Well that's what you need to work on then. As I said, you need to make some female friends and get comfortable around girls. What I found interesting, when I was in High School and going through exactly what you are, is that you can talk to girls the same way you talk to your guy friends, and they respond quite well and will like you the same. Don't worry about getting a girlfriend or having sex, you will just fail if you worry about those things at this point because you don't have the skills to get there, yet.

Author:	A.T [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 7:00 pm ]
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Lol, i have the exactly opposite issue, i have no problem handling girls, but i'm having issues forming my own social circle, to be popular or a strong social status. BUt i think, u just need to kick urself and get comfortable with it, just like practing, u will get better eventually.

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Author:	puaninja [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 7:30 pm ]
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Emulate your male peers whom you see having success with girls.

Author:	Jimbonn [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 7:42 pm ]
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Quote: Emulate your male peers whom you see having success with girls. Well most of my peers in school are very comfortable around girls. I would say too comfortable.. They would slap their ass, call them fat to joke around and the girls for some strange reason would like it. However, that's not all the girls. Some guys just sit next to them and start talking for hours but that's what I can't do. I don't know what to say. I'd just say "Hi" (thats even if I had the guts to) and then she would reply back. Then what?

Author:	HavokEpicurus [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 7:47 pm ]
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What seems to work well for me is the aspect of being descriptive, and giving them something to play with. Instead of just saying a one word answer "fine" why not Say something like "I am having an awesome day. (with enthusiasm) What about you? " What this does is show that you are a positive person that is willing to have a conversation. You don't need to carry the conversation, you can throw it back on her. this is where you can either make things more in to fiends or lovers road. You said you ant friends so talk to her about things going on. Is she ready for the test. Is she going to the game this week. what ever is going on in high school. she will give you other topics to talk about. You Just need to listen.

Author:	Jimbonn [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 10:12 am ]
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Alright so I got another question. Is high school gaming different that club gaming? Aren't they the same technique?

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