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Author:  redsky [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 8:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Redsky's Club/ Bar Game Method (One Night Stands)
Redsky's Club/ Bar Game Method:

Step 1: Approach

Step 2: Build comfort while Identifying

Step 3: Isolate

Step 4: Build comfort while escalating

-Step 1: Approach:

When approaching I believe it's necessary to never get too invested with one girl. Play the field. Have a brief conversation, determine her level of interest and if it doesn't seem like she is displaying a substantial amount of interest, then eject.

Now you can bounce to another girl in the bar or move on to the next venue. I usually don't spend time on more than 2 girls per venue. However you can if it's a big place.
If it's a huge venue with thousands of people then I'm usually not satisfied until I've approached around 15 girls. I generally get around 6 numbers if I don't manage to find a girl who is attracted enough to go home with.

Simple Night Game Openers:

Here are a couple of openers for night game which I have had success with:

1) "How are you going to look at me like that and not say anything?" (When they look at you)

2) "Isn't that a shirt worth talking about." (Usually use on bartenders or chicks who are in the same line of sight with flashy shirts)

3) "I don't think we've been introduced." (You can use this for pretty much any situation in a bar or club)

Honestly, I don't really think what you say matters that much, as long as it's respectful. I don't believe it matters too much what content is being discussed. I believe the connection is based on how two people naturally feel together.

Once you've managed to open successfully and she's clearly interested then you can work on building comfort.

Building Comfort:

After you approach, you can build comfort by asking questions and making statements. Make sure they are not too deep of questions and keep the conversation positive.

When a girl brings up something negative, then I like to just say, "That's unfortunate." While changing the subject right after.

Examples of Questions and Statements:

Question Ex: "What were you doing before you came here?"

This I use alot and is easy to remember. It doesn't matter what you use as long as it leads to a topic that is fun and positive.

Statement Ex: "My friend from highschool was in town last week. I haven't seen him in years. We partied the whole week."

As you see, this statement sets a mood. Statements help keep the interaction from seeming like an interview.

The idea is to get the girl talking. When they are talking more than you and every topic seems like it's moving along easily and care-free, then you are on the right track.

Identifying Same Night Lays:

When I'm pushing for this, then in between conversation, I'll focus on answering these questions:

-Who's she with?

-Does she want to hang out with me?

-How close does she live? (If you plan to go to her place. I usually bring them to my place but have had success going to theirs before.)

-What time does she have to wake up?

If all these questions are answered in my favor, meaning:

-She's not with anyone or not with anyone who will make her stay.

-She wants to hang out with me and is interested enough to change venues with me.

-She lives close. (If you are wanting to go to her place.)

-She doesn't have to wake up early for anything important.
If these are the answers then I will proceed onward to isolating her to a more private venue.

Isolation:

I usually avoid Clubs or Bars that have an expensive cover because most girls that you meet there are going to want to stay until the end. This will in return, make isolation and escalation much more difficult.

My favorite places for Isolation, are slow bars that offer games. I usually frequent places that offer Darts and Billiards. (I even carry around my own set of darts.)

Games: This is good for setting a playful state which I believe is necessary for keeping her comfortable; building comfort.

I tend to tease them for missed shots, telling them 'nice shot' when they miss, etc. Then hugging them right after while saying nice try. Which is somewhat a form of Push/Pull.

I also think this is an ideal time to start kino.

Kino: Any act of touching that is geared toward seducing a woman.

When doing this, I like to lightly bump them playfully from time to time when walking by them.

Another good thing to do, is talk about funny movies that you like. Make sure they've seen the movies also. I always bring up popular comedies and state parts that I thought were funny.

My favorite movie, to talk about is 'TED'. Which is a very sexual movie, I might add. I will bring up sexual parts and say things like, "You're into that aren't you."
I then smile when they look shocked and start laughing. I might even add, "I like the look on your face." Then lightly push their stomach as I walk by again.

I have also said things like, "what are you a virgin?"

I believe that once you get a girl comfortable enough to discuss sexual topics then it is safe to start escalating.

Escalation:

Escalation is the actual process that leads to a sexual interaction.

When I escalate, I will veer the conversation toward something sexual, as I stated earlier. If I am able to get a girl to talk with me about this, then I know I am on track.

I will now experiment by putting my hands out, facing upward, in-front of her and see if she grabs them. This is a typical test for compliance. (If they are willing to change venues then they will most likely comply. If not, just tell her you aren't having fun and move on to another girl, while the night is young. She may chase you after telling her that.)

After this I will lightly pull her in toward me, so I'm able to put my hands on her waist.

Now if she allows this, I'll look in her eyes and tell her she's cute.

If she responds favorably by smiling and her eyes get bigger, then I will slowly move in to kiss her.

After this I will sit down with her, preferably by the bar and pull her close to me. I like to sit so she is leaning on me with our shoulders touching.

I will lightly kiss her, here and there. I'm always the first to end the kiss. This means I won't kiss them much longer than 2-3 seconds before I back off.

I also like to get close to her face, making her think I'm going to kiss her and pull away playfully. She may force you to kiss her when you do this, which is a great sign.

Keep the conversation light and playful.

Ex 1: "I thought you were a Columbia University Student when I first met you."

Ex 2: "So what did you think when you first met me?"

Now if you feel like the vibe is good. She seems like she's having a good time. Then tell her, "Let's get out of here."

She may reply with, "Where do you wanna go?" and she may just agree to go with you.

If she asks this, then just tell her, "I really just want you to come home with me." But without looking at her. I suggest just looking straight forward with your body and face pointing the same direction her body is pointing. This doesn't make you look like you are coming on too strong, even though in reality you are.

*I think women tend to pay attention to body language more than words and if you don't give off the body language of a creep or a horn-dog that is on the prowl, then you can get away with being direct.*

She may say, "And do what?" You then reply, "Whatever you want to do." The worst she can say is no. However I use this quite successfully so I know it works.

I always take a taxi home when I meet a girl. I don't like to waste too much time because a long train ride could dull the mood and make her less willing to get sexual.

When in the taxi I suggest kissing her here and there, once more. Pull her close if she allows it.

Now when I'm home, I'll put on a romantic comedy like 'Crazy Stupid Love'. I'll watch it for a couple of minutes. Then move on to kissing briefly. Again, stop and watch some more. Kiss and start with a little light buttock grabbing. Stop and continue watching. Repeat for around 15-20 minutes while alternating between buttocks and her chest.

Within that time, you can place her hand on your private. This can add some momentum because most women are turned on by feeling on this area.

If she grabs it, let her feel on it for 30 seconds to a minute, then take it out. Let her continue stroking and now you can start massaging her genital region through her pants.

If she's very into what is going on; moaning and such. Then start unbuttoning her pants and massage her area through her panties. Continue this for 3-4 minutes, then remove her pants and yours right after.

When you both have removed your pants then continue massaging her area. Make sure you avoid touching her with your fingernails when doing this.

Now start kissing her while positioning yourself on top while she is on her back. Make sure that you are alternating your kissing sequence from neck, cheek to mouth and repeat. Be random in how long you spend on each area of the sequence. Only use tongue if she uses it first. Dry hump her genital area slow and lightly from the moment you are on top of her, after the pants have been removed.

After 3-5 minutes of this foreplay then I think it's safe to penetrate.

I suggest grabbing a condom and putting it on while continuing foreplay. Make sure you have a condom within reachable distance before even starting foreplay.

Now slide it on, lift her panties by the leg opening and enter. Mission Accomplished. Congratulations you have just had a Same Night Lay.

Sometimes girls may not be willing to go further. This is OK. Just make out with them. Then let them get you off with a hand job, if you can.

If they don't budge then just tell them you have to go to work early and wake them up at an early time in the morning. Then send them on their way. They won't always put out, it's win and lose. Can't win them all. I've known guys who would just tell them that they need to go if they aren't going to put out but I don't suggest that. It could lead to drama and I personally think it's a bit mean.

Eventually after a good amount of success then you will get a feel for when you are in 'The Zone' with a girl. Which helps when deciding who to take home with you.

So that concludes my Club/Bar Game Method. Best of luck.
Author:  jay_T [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 6:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Redsky's Club/ Bar Game Method (One Night Stands)
solid post! turining 21 Wednesday so ill be hitting the bar for the first time you made a lot of good points.
Author:  redsky [ Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Redsky's Club/ Bar Game Method (One Night Stands)
Glad you liked, have fun ;)
Author:  Shaolin101 [ Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Redsky's Club/ Bar Game Method (One Night Stands)
Trying this one tomorrow night, let's see if I can play it out ;)
Author:  redsky [ Thu Mar 14, 2013 1:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Redsky's Club/ Bar Game Method (One Night Stands)
:mrgreen:
Author:  Lockfade [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 7:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Redsky's Club/ Bar Game Method (One Night Stands)
Going to a hard style club, this might be handy.
Thanks allot.
Author:  redsky [ Sun Mar 17, 2013 11:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Redsky's Club/ Bar Game Method (One Night Stands)
No prob
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