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Author:  chakara [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:43 am ]
Post subject:  Dating Advice "HELP ME"

Hello. I need your advice. I am 33 year old guy who met 34 year old lady. We had 3 dates already. First one was walk in a park and a restaurant, second one was walk in the park, on a third one we went to a movie and then restaurant. In a movie, I held her hand and put my arm on her leg. I hugged her several times. During all the physical contact, she did not mind me touching her, but never tried to initiate physical contact herself. In the end of our last date, she said when that she will be available to meeting me next weekend.
We told each other a lot of info about each other.
I told her I would call her in the middle of the week.
Do you think it is OK to ask her to invite her to come to my place to watch a movie? If not, what do you suggest me to do? I do really like her. However, if I come to strong on her, I may lose her. Please advise.

Author:  Mr. Marville [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating Advice "HELP ME"

What the fuck! You posted as a girl just some days ago!

Author:  Sh4rp [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 5:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating Advice "HELP ME"

Yes, that would be fine. You could also invite her out for drinks.

Author:  chakara [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 2:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating Advice "HELP ME"

Quote:
What the fuck! You posted as a girl just some days ago!
in-case you missed it...I post questions from my clients on this forum because of the divers opinions, and points of views in the PUA community. If you don't mind helping out by answering these questions then you are more then welcome to read the content, laugh to yourself and enjoy your day...or you can be a DICK and say little kid shit...sorry...CUNT.

Author:  puaninja [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 12:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating Advice "HELP ME"

Woah, chillz. Yea, I remember his post, and he was not pretending to be a girl, lolz.

Here's where you are in that situation. You've already taken the lead and she knows you are interested in her physically. That being said, the invitation for her to watch a movie at your house is an obvious ruse to get her to come over and sleep with you, especially for a woman in her 30s who knows how men operate.

Personally, I would hold off on that. You don't want to telegraph too much sexual interest too early. Unless she really giving you some strong ioi's. Go on a few more dates. Just be fun and energetic and flirty. Then after a handful of dates you can invite her back to your house and it the intimacy will make more sense for her.

Author:  Mr. Marville [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 10:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating Advice "HELP ME"

Quote:
Quote:
What the fuck! You posted as a girl just some days ago!
in-case you missed it...I post questions from my clients on this forum because of the divers opinions, and points of views in the PUA community. If you don't mind helping out by answering these questions then you are more then welcome to read the content, laugh to yourself and enjoy your day...or you can be a DICK and say little kid shit...sorry...CUNT.
What the fuck man, it's about time you swallow some nails and or shards of glass to fresh up your memory - I was one of the few who actually responded to a useful and elaborate way to this post of the girl that you posted.

Author:  Nick@how2seduce [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 11:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating Advice "HELP ME"

What I see here and from another guys is something that everyone with less self esteem has in common.

STOP ASKING QUESTIONS, STOP SEEKING FOR APPROVAL!

Show confidence and LEAD. Why you guys ask girls for things... just say it like its a normal thing.

Wrong:
Can I call you?

Right:
I will call you

Wrong:
Do you want to meet at xy..

Right:
Im free at xy, meet me then...I'd like to get to know you better...

Well you get the point. The more questions you ask, less chances you have. START LEADING ;)

Author:  chakara [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 5:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating Advice "HELP ME"

Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
What the fuck! You posted as a girl just some days ago!
in-case you missed it...I post questions from my clients on this forum because of the divers opinions, and points of views in the PUA community. If you don't mind helping out by answering these questions then you are more then welcome to read the content, laugh to yourself and enjoy your day...or you can be a DICK and say little kid shit...sorry...CUNT.
What the fuck man, it's about time you swallow some nails and or shards of glass to fresh up your memory - I was one of the few who actually responded to a useful and elaborate way to this post of the girl that you posted.
Oh yeah, I'm sorry I thought you was someone new or something, thank you for your help and don't pay me much attention, I'm just busy trying to help people with relationships by providing out the box views from the greatest forum on the net.

Author:  MavenPhaseshift [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 6:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating Advice "HELP ME"

Since she is an older women she know some of the game. What I would do is go be testing for her idea of watching a movie. Some will be down others will not. as your speaking you get on the topic of movies, if she likes net flixs ect. By using net flix and not movies in general. you are placing the idea in her head that it is at a house.
If she is happy about it and goes off about it she is showing that she likes the idea. If she doesn't and is quite about it. she doesn't like the idea. This is reading the women. Personally that's what I would do.

Author:  Malcolm Thomas [ Sat Feb 09, 2013 12:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Dating Advice "HELP ME"

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Hello. I need your advice. I am 33 year old guy who met 34 year old lady. We had 3 dates already. First one was walk in a park and a restaurant, second one was walk in the park, on a third one we went to a movie and then restaurant. In a movie, I held her hand and put my arm on her leg. I hugged her several times. During all the physical contact, she did not mind me touching her, but never tried to initiate physical contact herself. In the end of our last date, she said when that she will be available to meeting me next weekend.
We told each other a lot of info about each other.
I told her I would call her in the middle of the week.
Do you think it is OK to ask her to invite her to come to my place to watch a movie? If not, what do you suggest me to do? I do really like her. However, if I come to strong on her, I may lose her. Please advise.
Don't worry about the possibility of losing her. You have to risk losing her. If you don't, you will never make a move and you WILL lose her. Most women will not make the first move. The onus is on YOU to make the move and sexually escalate with her.

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