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| Author: | saturnalia [ Tue Jan 01, 2013 2:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | help me pls to fullfill my new years resolution |
I have no social circle, my life just sucks, so as a new years resolution, I decided to dedicated my free time to daygame I have absolutely no experience in it, also I have some mild social anxiety, but I think, that`s due to me not having a peer group giving me positive feed-back so what do you guys recommend me, when it comes do daygame? and I`m also "old", I`m 30, is it a positive for women in their 20`s or not? |
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| Author: | Language [ Tue Jan 01, 2013 6:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me pls to fullfill my new years resolution |
First off, Props to getting back in the game bro! I wish you luck! I'm only 21 so I'm not sure what type of response you are going to get, I'm not even sure where I would go for day game. What type of plan were you thinking of (technical details would make this easier because it really depends on where you are going to do this.) |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Tue Jan 01, 2013 6:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me pls to fullfill my new years resolution |
First of all 30 is about the perfect age for game, you have easy options in a wide age demographic. Its not old for gaming even 18 year olds, the fact that you think it is old is rationalizing for failure, thats a destructive habit - watch that There are three primary components for daygame you should work on. 1. Always be approaching, and set goals like 10 approaches a day, if you dont set goals and regulate yourself you will rationalize why you dont approach almost every girl you want to then you will go home and be bitter and give up. 2. Have some basic continuation canned material after you say "Hey!". I use shit that is always available as a backup if I cant springboard off their response (assuming she has some basic level of initial interest). Stuff thats available for continuation of thread? What shes wearing, her accent, her energy, what she is doing here, etc... 3. Seek to engage her emotions. When I first started daygame I just tried to hang in set and talk but that doesn't create attraction, as you have no innate value as some random guy. This leads to lots of numbers but dead-ends. work to get a emotional and engaged response from your target. Finally your day-game is going to suck when you start, your going to get embarrassed and blown out. Get used to it, it gets much easier and better as you practice. The hardest part of all pickup is getting over the initial start where your calibration sucks and you pursue chicks who have no interest, and thus make ass. By constantly practicing you will move beyond this problem by being competent. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Jan 03, 2013 1:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me pls to fullfill my new years resolution |
Hey bro, I'm right with you. I'm 34, just got out of a brief relationshit, and I'm going out daygaming tomorrow night (yes, you can daygame at night). It's a street fair and usually it's mostly young people there. I n-closed an 18 y/o there before, and k-closed a 21 y/o. I really didn't give a fuck about their age as long as they are legal. My strategy tomorrow will be to talk to every set like they are some girl that I used to go to highschool with, had a slight crush on, and now I've run into them out of the blue after many years. "HI there! It's so nice to see you, how have you been?! Where do you live? What are you doing for work? What are you doing for fun? Let me tell you about me and all the stuff I'm doing now. Isn't this great that we're together right now, getting to know each other!?" If you are actually excited to see someone, it will show in your voice. You'll maintain high energy and seem more interesting. You'll also be more "in the moment" with the girl. If you met a girl you used to like that you hadn't seen in 15 years, do you think you or she would become bored within the first 5 mintues of your conversation? Hell no! You'd be bantering back and forth enjoying yourselves. You wouldn't be worrying in the back of your mind if this girl is going to tell you to piss off. You'll be confident, genuine, and happy to see her and not second guess yourself. Try to cultivate that type of dialogue with your sets. Don't worry about nervously spouting off some opinion questions or cheesy stories. Just be in the moment and show genuine interest and excitement. |
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| Author: | numbersgame [ Thu Jan 03, 2013 10:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me pls to fullfill my new years resolution |
as long as your not cumming off all creepy and shit i think public transport is the best place to day game, open at the station, close after she comes to sit with you on the train. |
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