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| Author: | nsmith3692 [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 2:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Guy just getting back out there who needs some help!!! |
Hello everyone, im a 22 year old mixed martial artist and am currently awaiting bootcamp in the Navy. I was in a relationship for almost 4 years on and off and earlier this year she broke things off with me and I haven't been the same since. I'm very nervous around girls and get a lot of anxiety when it comes to opening. So I avoid it at all costs. This is not my norm, before I met my ex I had pussy in my lap all the time and had no problem opening and achieving full close fairly quickly. My top score to this day has to be in the upper thirties but I really feel that this last breakup has completely ruined my game (my own fault). So I am just looking for some pointers on how best to approach a potential target and convey pure confidence. I also tend to not get the picture when I am denied, I have trouble moving on from my initial target and probably come off as a little clingy (I know, I'm probably sounding like a bitch). I guess my main goal is to get back where I used to be as a pretty successful PUA a few years back. So if anyone has ANY advice for me it would be greatly appreciated and I cant wait to get back out there! Thanks guys |
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| Author: | TrippAdvice [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 6:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Guy just getting back out there who needs some help!!! |
Hey dude! Start right back from the bottom. Clear your history and your mind. Start going out and approaching. Anyone and ALL THE TIME. You can convey confidence through your body language. I actually have an article on that: http://trippadvice.com/approaching/appr ... -language/. You'll be fine man, it's just like riding a bike. |
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| Author: | nsmith3692 [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 6:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Guy just getting back out there who needs some help!!! |
Quote: Hey dude! Start right back from the bottom. Clear your history and your mind. Start going out and approaching. Anyone and ALL THE TIME. You can convey confidence through your body language. I actually have an article on that: http://trippadvice.com/approaching/appr ... -language/.
You'll be fine man, it's just like riding a bike. thanks man!! this will def be a help, take care bro! |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 6:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Guy just getting back out there who needs some help!!! |
Confidence is just a reflection of your innergame. If it's weak, your confidence will be low. If it's strong, then it's high. Success breeds confidence, and success comes with approaching as many sets as possible. Also, be loud and take up space. That conveys confidence. |
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| Author: | nsmith3692 [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 3:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Guy just getting back out there who needs some help!!! |
Quote: Confidence is just a reflection of your innergame. If it's weak, your confidence will be low. If it's strong, then it's high. Success breeds confidence, and success comes with approaching as many sets as possible.
Also, be loud and take up space. That conveys confidence. Thanks for the advice bro! Im def tryin to bring up my game so hopefully confidence will come with that |
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