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It's less than ideal when you like a girl that you have no contact with in everyday life, because you have to basically do what a stalker does, which is find out intel on your target and track her down. And the facebook thing, not gonna' happen. Especially if she is really pretty. Stand in line and wait forever just to be ignored.

It's difficult, daunting, dangerous, etc., to try and create some scheme to make it appear like you just randomly stumbled upon this girl in your day to day dealings and then try to parlay that into getting to know her. You're only shot is to go direct, and that's admittidly a long shot. Just walk in and run some opener on her and try to number close her right there. Be charming and memorable and tell her that she better answer your call or you'll be mad. Try and get her to remember you. Then if it doesn't work out dont' worry about it and find another girl to game. This is already borderline stalkerish.

Author:	scamander [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 7:32 am ]
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Alright guys, I've had my eyes on this girl whom I don't know, and neither of my friends know. I really want to approach this girl and get to know her. But it seems impossible because it doesn't seem likely that we will meet. I've tried to do some Facebook openers but they didn't work. That was about 2months ago Any ideas on how I can make her talk? She doesn't reply to Facebook msg cause she probably gets a lot of guys trying to chat her up already. HELP!!

Author:	Tubbly [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 1:29 pm ]
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grab some balls and approach her.

Author:	puaninja [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 2:46 pm ]
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Make it likely that you will meet.

Author:	scamander [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 3:53 pm ]
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Quote: Make it likely that you will meet. When you say make it likely that we meet, do you mean show up at a place where she will be? Won't that be random? I know she works in a&f, would it be awkward to approach her there? P.s. how should I approach if she is working

Author:	puaninja [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 6:09 pm ]
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It's less than ideal when you like a girl that you have no contact with in everyday life, because you have to basically do what a stalker does, which is find out intel on your target and track her down. And the facebook thing, not gonna' happen. Especially if she is really pretty. Stand in line and wait forever just to be ignored. It's difficult, daunting, dangerous, etc., to try and create some scheme to make it appear like you just randomly stumbled upon this girl in your day to day dealings and then try to parlay that into getting to know her. You're only shot is to go direct, and that's admittidly a long shot. Just walk in and run some opener on her and try to number close her right there. Be charming and memorable and tell her that she better answer your call or you'll be mad. Try and get her to remember you. Then if it doesn't work out dont' worry about it and find another girl to game. This is already borderline stalkerish.

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Author:	scamander [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 2:31 am ]
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Quote: It's less than ideal when you like a girl that you have no contact with in everyday life, because you have to basically do what a stalker does, which is find out intel on your target and track her down. And the facebook thing, not gonna' happen. Especially if she is really pretty. Stand in line and wait forever just to be ignored. It's difficult, daunting, dangerous, etc., to try and create some scheme to make it appear like you just randomly stumbled upon this girl in your day to day dealings and then try to parlay that into getting to know her. You're only shot is to go direct, and that's admittidly a long shot. Just walk in and run some opener on her and try to number close her right there. Be charming and memorable and tell her that she better answer your call or you'll be mad. Try and get her to remember you. Then if it doesn't work out dont' worry about it and find another girl to game. This is already borderline stalkerish. Hey man, so this is how it went. It was her birthday a few days ago, so i used this opportunity to Facebook msg her. I sent her something nice, but she never replied. she never looked at it so today i send her another msg while she was online.. this is how it went... ME: you had so much fun on your birthday you forgot to say thanks HB9: ommmgggg hahahahahaaa, this is nice haha!!!! thanks so much:) sry...yeaaa i just didn't check all the inboxes yettt, thanks so much ME: haha i was only joking,i though you were still too busy partying after all this time and then she never replied. What moves shall i make now??

Author:	TheKoon [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 5:00 am ]
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Just approach her man. I've had this same problem but then I got over it because I just said "screw it" And I went it and she liked it. That's what increases value in yourself is that you had the balls to go up to her instead of other guys that just sit there and will be like "man that girl is so hot but way out of my league" bull crap she is out of your league. Just show some value in yourself

Author:	Dusty-Page [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 7:55 am ]
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Quote: ME: you had so much fun on your birthday you forgot to say thanks HB9: ommmgggg hahahahahaaa, this is nice haha!!!! thanks so much:) sry...yeaaa i just didn't check all the inboxes yettt, thanks so much ME: haha i was only joking,i though you were still too busy partying after all this time and then she never replied. What moves shall i make now?? SERIOUSLY? REALLY BRO? I think it's pretty clear at this point that the whole Facebook thing isn't going to work, doesn't matter what you do. You said it yourself she's pretty, so theres bound to be tons of dudes hot on her trail, and trying to come up with a witty Facebook opener, in my humble opinion, is a waste of time. Best bet is to go up to her and do your thing. Doesn't matter where, If you see her on the street, or when you go down to A&F to shop for a new hoodie or whatever. Point is you need to approach her face tp face for you to stand any chance, the PC ain't gonna crack this one. Personaly I think you're already wasting too much time, just thinking 'bout this girl, but anyway I hope you catch her bro. Goodluck D.P

Author:	puaninja [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 12:51 pm ]
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The poor girl, she doesn't realize that just trying to be nice and actually taking the time to respond to the guy only leads him on further. Then she once she realizes he is not going away it's ignore time. No more moves to make now. This one is officially ruined.

Author:	afcme123 [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 2:32 pm ]
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I hate to say it man, but Im afraid if you approach her now you might come off like a stalker, and might even freak her out.. She probably gets tons of messages from random people on Facebook.. So if you send her one or two with she probably wont even remember you.... But now (since you sent so many with no reply) she probably remembers you and now thinks "OMG WHEN WILL THIS GUY TAKE A HINT AND LEAVE ME ALONE!" And if you approach her in person, she might be nice and talk to you, but if you try to get her number she will think "THIS GUY SENDS ME 1000 MESSAGES ON FACEBOOK AND DOESNT GET THE HINT!! HE PROBABLY WILL TEXT ME CONSTANTLY!" Im not trying to be mean so please dont take it that way, just try to realize that there are tonnnnsss of women out there, and your studying stuff that can improve your chances on getting with any woman. So dont worry about this one. Just take it as a lesson and move on.

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