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| Author: | t0night [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 7:36 am ] |
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Long story short, met this girl in a psych class and we hit it off pretty good. But then again, she's pretty social with everyone so maybe it's just my wishful thinking. Anyway, I invited her to a paint party, but I had to tend to an emergency before we met up. I texted her stating that we should definitely reschedule for something next week. This was three days ago and I haven't gotten a response back. What should my next move be? Should I give her some space and allow her to show me some interest before asking/inviting her out to some event again or move forward regardless? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 4:21 pm ] |
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Call her (not text), ask her to join up with you for some cool shit your doing. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 4:32 pm ] |
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Waiting for them to contact you never works. If you want anything done, you have to do it yourself. |
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| Author: | t0night [ Sun Nov 11, 2012 2:14 am ] |
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Quote: Waiting for them to contact you never works. If you want anything done, you have to do it yourself.
Yeah, I've thought about that. Thing is, I don't want to feel like I'm crowding her like a clingy AFC.In the class that we have together, we would interact and talk about shit. After I had to bail out on the paint party, she's gone cold turkey on me. Not even eye contact. Like wtf? Anyone have experience dealing with this type of girl? |
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| Author: | Spacehead [ Sun Nov 11, 2012 2:29 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Waiting for them to contact you never works. If you want anything done, you have to do it yourself.
Yeah, I've thought about that. Thing is, I don't want to feel like I'm crowding her like a clingy AFC.In the class that we have together, we would interact and talk about shit. After I had to bail out on the paint party, she's gone cold turkey on me. Not even eye contact. Like wtf? Anyone have experience dealing with this type of girl? There might be "love barriers" that you both have. Give her some space and find another lover is my advice. It should resolve on its own though if you are friends. Have you shifted the conversation towards sexual topics yet? Have you touched her? I hope you aren't desperate about her. That kills of the proper vibe very quickly. |
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| Author: | t0night [ Mon Nov 12, 2012 2:13 am ] |
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Maybe you have some mental blocks on it and she feels it.
Yeah, I'm not taking any action on her until she shows a slight hint of interest back and I'm keeping myself busy with other activities and ladies. Haven't shifted the convo to sexual nor have I touched her yet.There might be "love barriers" that you both have. Give her some space and find another lover is my advice. It should resolve on its own though if you are friends. Have you shifted the conversation towards sexual topics yet? Have you touched her? I hope you aren't desperate about her. That kills of the proper vibe very quickly. We're not friends per se, but we're a little acquainted. Still, what puzzles me with her is that on the day I invited her to the party, she seemed really excited. She asked me when I was going to be there, and after I got her number she asked me to call/text her so that she will have my number. I thought for sure these were good signs, but perhaps she was just being a good conversationalist. |
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