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Author:  bmw2312 [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 2:27 pm ]
Post subject:  How's this for an opener?
Working on my game. I've added a few very thoughtout routines and kino to my arsenal since being on here so I'm trying to prefect my game. None the less how's this for an opener?
Hey im bmw2312 I saw u from across the store and I thought to myself I'm gonna kick myself if I don't say hi.

Or maybe I'm gonna kick myself if I don't get a hug.
Author:  yozo [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 5:26 pm ]
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1st version is a very nice upgrade to classic 'hey I saw you' openers :). Nice one
Author:  puaninja [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 7:55 pm ]
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It's not bad. The only problem I would have with it is that based on my experience with openers, the girl doesn't care at that point who you are or whether you are going to be mad at yourself, or whether or not you made a bet with your buddy that you'd come over and talk to her. When you convey that you were hesitant or nervous to approach her it's like showing you lack confidence.

Maybe something like, "Hi. I couldn't help but notice you from across the room and I just HAD to come over here and introduce myself to you."

Do you see the difference in the confidence between those two lines. The first one is apprehensive, while the second one is very clear and assertive.
Author:  yozo [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 11:23 pm ]
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True. Tho, here is not the issue
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the girl doesn't care at that point who you are or whether you are going to be mad at yourself, or whether or not you made a bet with your buddy that you'd come over and talk to her
Adding the kicking part makes it funny - girls love to imagine guys getting physically hurt cos of them, it's in their nature. Don't you agree?
bmw2312, keep it assertive AND funny, that's a great combo.
Author:  Behr [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 6:06 am ]
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It's not bad. The only problem I would have with it is that based on my experience with openers, the girl doesn't care at that point who you are or whether you are going to be mad at yourself, or whether or not you made a bet with your buddy that you'd come over and talk to her. When you convey that you were hesitant or nervous to approach her it's like showing you lack confidence.

Maybe something like, "Hi. I couldn't help but notice you from across the room and I just HAD to come over here and introduce myself to you."

Do you see the difference in the confidence between those two lines. The first one is apprehensive, while the second one is very clear and assertive.


Golden Advice Puaninja. Definitely try it this way man. The Game is about conveying confidence to the HB. Well said.
Author:  bundy [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 6:20 am ]
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It's not bad. The only problem I would have with it is that based on my experience with openers, the girl doesn't care at that point who you are or whether you are going to be mad at yourself, or whether or not you made a bet with your buddy that you'd come over and talk to her. When you convey that you were hesitant or nervous to approach her it's like showing you lack confidence.

Maybe something like, "Hi. I couldn't help but notice you from across the room and I just HAD to come over here and introduce myself to you."

Do you see the difference in the confidence between those two lines. The first one is apprehensive, while the second one is very clear and assertive.


Golden Advice Puaninja. Definitely try it this way man. The Game is about conveying confidence to the HB. Well said.

totally agree with these dudes, or a little variation

"Hey, i caught you looking at me from across the room, didnt your mom teach you that it was rude to stare?"

i pull this on randoms all the time with a playful/inquisitive/cocky smirk/look on my face. i am an attractive guy so it has always worked out for me, i guess if you are rather unattractive or approaching a really stuck up bitch it could fail, but usually girls will smile and laugh and say something like "oh dont flatter yourself" or something like that. just smile back and give a little more C&F lines theyll eat it up. confidence off the bat = huge DHV
Author:  .Storm [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 6:22 am ]
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This is similar to the line I used to open in the (so far) only one field test I've done. I would go up to the girl and say something like "Hey I thought you were really cute and had to come meet you" then exchange names or whatever.. I got this from the Simple Pickup guys, because it seems to be their go-to opener, and works pretty well for them.
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