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| Author: | Loveu18 [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 10:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | need a little help! |
So usually im afraid to make a direct approach so I do indirect, problem is that im afraid to go direct no matter how much iois she's showing. Last weekend at a party I felt this great suductive energy and I just when in with these direct approach and was so confidence.. I was successful with 3 number close in 1 night. I will like to know how to get that feeling back? I have try meditating on the feeling but it's not working! |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 1:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need a little help! |
Quote: I will like to know how to get that feeling back? I have try meditating on the feeling but it's not working!
Follow the 3 second rule, just jump in within 3 seconds of IOI eye contact, before your brain has time to rationalize all the reasons to hold you back.Why be afraid of what a woman will say? Those who attracted to you will react positively! And those who don’t aren’t worth listening to anyway. |
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| Author: | Notrya [ Fri Sep 28, 2012 12:30 am ] |
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Hello, Jablowme said it, 3 second rule will prevent your brain from thinking too much and sucking you up. I also think that some NLP techniques may help you. To 'get that feeling back' you must be in the same state of mind you were when you felt it. Questions to ask yourself that may help you figure out how to be in that state: - Why were you confident? What made you feel confident? - Why are you not confident now? What refrains you from going forward? - What is the link between your previous confident state and your current state? Write it down if it helps... Things to consider: - Caffeine? (lol but true, caffeine affects confidence) - Music? (quickest way to change your internal state / feelings) - Inspiration? (by an achieved outcome or someone) - Frustration? Dig it deep in your brain, and when you spot it, eradicate it once and for all. Amem. |
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