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| Author: | azheights [ Fri Jan 11, 2008 6:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Argh! Help Please! |
Hmm, I'm in dire need of some help. My problem is pretty simple but I have no idea how to solve it, so I'm seeking your guys' help, any help is appreciated greatly. Okay so here goes, (I'm in high school), (not trying to be cocky) but lots of times girls hit on me but I have no followup! When they greet me I always just say "hey" and I hardly ever look them in the face when I say that, let alone smile. I was asked to winter formal by a gorgeous asian chick by her friends but I fucked up and pretended that I didn't even hear them (I have no idea why I did it, it's fucked up like that) I need some help, how do I just make it natural to say hey and smile and start a conversation with them? (They'd start a conversation with me but I'd usually kill it with a yes/no answer) @_@ Thanks for any contributions! |
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| Author: | elkid27 [ Fri Jan 11, 2008 6:31 am ] |
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To look natural in a conversation you have to be natural when conversing. Practice talking. Small talk with anyone, guys, girls, the cashier wherever you are. It sounds like you are just naturally shy and to break outta this you just gotta start talking. Take some advice from The Game. Write some conversational material down now, and keep it in your back pocket. Just having it there as a reminder will often help greatly. |
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| Author: | Blany [ Fri Jan 11, 2008 6:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Highschool |
In my early highschool days gr 9-11 (In Canada highschool is grades 9-12 and you can stay for an extra year if you wish) I was very shy. I didn't talk to girls, just chilled with some of the boys I played hockey with. I broke out of my shell probably late gr 11 and i was pretty relaxed in social situation all through out gr 12. Just being with guys that were a little on the edge and around girls all the time helped me relax. Experience is the key to success. Just put yourself into situations, when you’re with a group of people (guys and girls) just be your self. I think it really important that you VALUE your own thoughts! Once you value your thoughts, including your idea, past experiences and stories you will find your self more inclined to share them. People will love hearing from you if you have value in your stories. You might tell the same story one hundred times and it might be your only story, but every time you tell it, you will get better at the story, you’ll learn what makes ppl smile, and laugh, and enjoy. After a while you’ll have a bunch of stories to tell with an endless flow of conversation!! You will know when you have succeeded when girls are telling you to shut up (probably cause your making them laugh to much or maybe they want your lips for other reasons) So thats my input.. just get out there Blany |
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