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| Author: | JJocose [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 5:12 am ] |
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How should I hold myself when first approaching a HB? What direct openers work best for you? Is there a book on direct game/ body language someone could recommend? |
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| Author: | owlstoop [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 5:25 am ] |
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My favorite way to approach direct (if this is even considered direct) is to walk up and ask a generic question like, "where is the nearest Starbucks?". I then interrupt them shortly into their answer with something along the lines of, "I actually know. I just thought you were really cute and had to talk to you". In reality, it's whatever you feel most comfortable doing though. My friend opens with the most off the wall things and is highly successful in doing so. |
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| Author: | JJocose [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 5:32 am ] |
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I agree about the comfortable part because my AA is worst at the time of the opener i want something as quick and direct as possible. Is there anything wrong with i just thought you were cute/stunning/ so i had to come over and talk to u or the u just caught my eye and i had to come over and talk to you type openers. Also does the 3 second rule have actual merit in day game? |
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| Author: | owlstoop [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 6:54 am ] |
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No, there's nothing wrong with those openers. If delivered correctly (with a smile, confident voice, etc) almost anything will be effective. As for the 3 second rule, yes it applies but the 3 second rule is basically a trick to get over your AA. The longer you wait around, the more likely you are to psyche yourself out. |
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| Author: | tomcat989 [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 11:44 pm ] |
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I love going direct. A good way of doing direct is to be bold and be vulnerable. Show that you have power but treat her as if she the only special girl in the world. If they are shock and embarresed make sure you ask a normal question like "what brings you out today?" |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Thu Aug 16, 2012 12:09 am ] |
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figure out what you want in a girl, figure out why you want that once you have this idea in your head, meet girls and find out if they are what you want, it can be looks, but go deeper then that, your ideal girl, screen her to see how she lines up, if she isn't, move on and meet new girls speak your mind, when you see a girl and you think ''damn this girl is so hot it takes my breathe away'' or what ever, approach and let her know exactly what you are thinking don't worry about the past or the future, worry about exactly how you feel at this moment in time, express that it can almost be summed up in, what do i want to do right now?, how can I make this moment better right now? when you know what you want, do that, exactly what you want, and go for what you want GOOD LUCK |
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