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Author:  Dexter_of_Devon [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 12:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Opening in a loud club?!

Hi,
I have found that in my local town are many loud clubs and roudy pubs but no real nice quiter bars where you can get good sarge going.
I find it hard to open/talk to a set in a club where you can't even hear yourself think, it's not quite the same when you have to shout your routine down a girls ear! :?
What can I do about opening girls in places like this? As unfortunately North Devon wasn't blessed with the most stylish cocktail bars in the world, only loud busy nightclubs and pubs!
Cheers
Dexter

Author:  Matrimcauthon77 [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 3:37 pm ]
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Loud clubs are a great time to practice nonverbal approaches.

The dance floor is a great place since it's all eye contact and body language. You can find a lot of good Youtube videos on how to approach women on the dance floor (since it's a little difficult to describe in paragraph form). Just make sure you avoid the creepy moves--no surprise grinding from behind and no grabbing a girl's arm to put her in position to dance with you.

Also, learn to speak from your diaphragm if you're going to be approaching women off the dance floor. Your voice will be louder without shouting.

Author:  Dexter_of_Devon [ Sat Aug 11, 2012 5:24 pm ]
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Quote:
Loud clubs are a great time to practice nonverbal approaches.

The dance floor is a great place since it's all eye contact and body language. You can find a lot of good Youtube videos on how to approach women on the dance floor (since it's a little difficult to describe in paragraph form). Just make sure you avoid the creepy moves--no surprise grinding from behind and no grabbing a girl's arm to put her in position to dance with you.

Also, learn to speak from your diaphragm if you're going to be approaching women off the dance floor. Your voice will be louder without shouting.
Thanks for the advice I'll go and take a look!

Author:  Sluggler [ Sat Aug 11, 2012 10:27 pm ]
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None verbal approach. Screaming in her ear wont work 9 times out of 10. Then isolate to a quieter location or outside the club.


Sluggler

Author:  Bund1971 [ Sun Aug 12, 2012 9:42 pm ]
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Great tips, I should be taking notes here...thanks

Author:  getwit [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:08 am ]
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I don't say anything during my approach at a club. I'll make direct eye contact with a girl -- if she holds it or looks down, I'll approach and hold out my hand. 99% of the time she'll grab it. Boom, that simple.

I'm a terrible dancer too, if that makes any difference

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