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| Author: | mballin [ Wed Aug 08, 2012 11:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Opinion on telling a lie as an opener? |
So a few times I have opened a group by telling a small lie/fib that would evoke some significant emotional response from the group. After seeing the response I would tell them I am just kidding, joke with them a little, and try to DMV. I know lying probably shouldn't usually be used, however it seemed to work reasonably a few times. Here is an example of one situation I can remember. I am in college and in a frat, and this is at one of our parties: Me: Hey guys, did you hear the big news?! Girl: No, what happened? Me: I just talked to our social chair and we decided to have a dry night tonight, there will be no alcohol served and we are going to be playing board games instead! Usually after this they would be a little shocked/disappointed/upset. and say something like "uhhh are you serious...?" Me: hahaha Im just kidding. There will be alcohol as long as you guys are fun enough, What makes you guys think you should be allowed to drink tonight? I don't like using a lie in an opener, but it seems like as long as it is something a little silly and not TOO important that it can be OK. It seems to do its job and getting the convo started. Let me know what you think! |
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| Author: | Newfie [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 12:02 am ] |
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if it is successful at opening then it is fine, all an opener needs to do is open. dont over think it man. |
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| Author: | prophecy122 [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 6:15 am ] |
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i might try this out, i hope you dont mind if i borrow it |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 7:01 am ] |
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joking and lying is 2 different thing. If that opens for you, use it. |
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| Author: | elgordo [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 10:55 am ] |
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Its a fun opener, try it. What is most important is that you open as many sets as you can in the beginning. You dont always need a clever opener, just go up to a girl and say: Hello, can i ask you something? or Can i have 30 seconds of your time or something that is short and simple. Use the KISS principle, Keep It Short & Simple. Then you can open many sets and get more experience with opening just imagine yourself kicking approach anxiety in the face with every girl you talk to. |
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