So is usually wouldn't post this because it happens quite often but i just wanted to share with you guys, especially the new guys to the game on how SIMPLE day game can be when you are demonstrating the correct body language, voice tone, eye contact, and looking your best. Its really simple. Not as hard as people think.
So i get on the elevator to head down from my office to grab some Starbucks. I see one of my co-workers/friends on the elevator and he happened to be heading to Starbucks too. Se we both walk out to Starbucks, and go in and order our drinks.
We were talking, and while we were talking i spot this stunning HB9 Latina. She was about 5'5(short, how i likem) Nice curvy body, black short hair that a little past her ears.
Btw, you guys need to have a "eye of the field" is what i call it. Always be looking for your next approach no matter where you are. After a while this will become natural like now, i do it without evening noticing i do it.
So after i spot her i timed it just right we were waiting on our drinks. I wanted to wait till she got outside before i approached so i waited till she opened the door to walk out and then i didn't even tell my friend i would be back i just shot out of the place after her.
She had walked about 5 ft from the Starbucks and i got in range to her and said.
Me: "Excuse me"
(She turns around, and i walk up to her looking her in the eyes, good body language, confidently)
Me: I was ordering my drinks when i seen you leaving out. I think you look absolutely stunning. I had to come introduce myself.
She started to smile..
Her: Omg i just left the dentist a little while ago so my mouth is still kinda sore, i cant really smile.
Me:Go ahead and smile, i'm sure its worth it right now.
Her: (Laugh) So where do you work?
Me: (My building happens to be right above Starbucks) I actually work right here!(I used my hands to motion where my building was) Yeah its awesome, what about you?
Her:Cool! I'm actually a contractor at ________ .
I forgot what i said after this, haha. Its just natural now.
Anyway i do remember the closing part.
She thought i would do like the average guy that attempts to approach her and wuss out asking for the number...
Her: Yeah well it was nice..(I interrupted her)
Me: Wait...No rings right?(Checking out her hands in a playful way)
Her: Oh noo! Not yet. i am seeing someone right now though.
Me: Awesome. By the way im ****(shake her hand)
Her: Nice to meet you. I'm _______ .
Me:Yeah i'm not looking for a relationship or anything right now. Just enjoying life, having fun.But listen, i would really like to have lunch sometimes as co-worker down the street friends, or grab some Starbucks together. I stay in here. You can treat me
Her: Hahah okay that sounds good!
Me: (I pull out my phone) Okay so i im going to need you to spell your name, ive been a bad speller ever since i lost my first spelling Bee in third grade. (Smile)
Me:Whats the number?
gives it...
then hand her my phone to spell her name, she spells it then saves it.
while she was putting her name in my phone, i asked her when her birthday was.
Me: Okay, i must know, whens your birthday?
Her: Its in june.
Me: Okay please don't tell me you are a cancer.
Her: Gemini!
Me: Score!(high five her) Anyway look i gotta get going im sure my drink is ready.
Her: Okay nice to meet you, what was your name again?
Me: Wow you forgot already..****.
Her: Okay **** just give me a missed call and let me know who its you. i usually dont answer numbers i dont recognize.
Me: ill just text you.
Her: Okay that works!
Me: Nice meeting you _____. Have a good one.
Her: You too
SCORE! I had just picked up a HOT latina chick, in broad day light with people tourist all walking around, AND she mentioned she was seeing someone. Most guys walk away after this point..NOT US!
As you see i framed the situation as "Just friends" to come in under the radar, and get a chance of hooking up with her vs. no chance and just walking away. Now i have a chance to go out with her and win her over if i wanted. or just have a chance to have another HOT female friend to hang with and raise my value. The thing you want to do is CREATE OPPORTUNITIES for yourself. I usually try not to still girls from their relationships. I respect that, because i wouldnt want that happening to me. Thats just me though.
Anyway, hope this story helps someone see how simple it can be. That conversation had to be no longer than 6 minutes. probably less. more like 4. Its really simple. Day game is different than night game, since women really appreciate a genuine guy approaching them in the middle of the day. It already shows alot about you by going out your way to do something like with, and having the courage too. So in that sense some form of attraction is already built.
Sluggler