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| Author: | TrippAdvice [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 4:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Tips to Avoid Being Creepy |
The #1 most unattractive trait a man can possess is being creepy. Have you ever been talking to a girl and she’s finding excuses to get away from you? Or maybe you think she’s interested but it’s impossible to get her number? How about the time when you started talking to a girl and her body language was turned away and you couldn’t make eye contact? These are just a few of the signs that you’ve been labeled creepy. And the worst part about it is, once you’re in the “creep zone,” it’s EXTREMELY difficult to get out. In all of your interactions with women, you want to stray far away from creating this label. Let me tell you the six best ways to avoid being creepy. 1. Don’t Ramble. The second you start to ramble in a conversation it demonstrates that you’re nervous and you don’t actually care about the conversation itself. It appears as if you just want to talk and not listen. When a person in conversation won’t stop talking and doesn’t pay attention to who they’re talking to, it exhibits weak social cues. Converse with the other person, ask questions and create an experience. Don’t be a talking robot. Also, stay away from initial conversations regarding death, religion, politics or any other intense debates. This usually doesn’t create a sexy vibe to work off of. 2. Smile. Ever see a person walking down the street toward you with either an angry or straight face? Imagine if a stranger with that face started a conversation with you out of nowhere. Creepy vibe? Yes, definitely. If they approached you with a warm smile, then you would at least give them a chance. The same goes for you! Smile all the time. Especially, when you meet new people. I don’t care if you have to fake it. The creepy guys are the ones who either don’t smile or have a face that looks like their numb. Don’t be that guy. 3. Fashion. Beyond the fact that being fashionable is attractive, it also makes you appear like you’re “with it.” A man at the bar or on the street with a solid getup looks important and appears confident. If you decide to skip out on the way you dress, you have an increasing chance at coming off creepy. Remember, a man in fitted, clean garments will come off more attractive than a man in gym shoes, baggy, khaki pants and a ratty t-shirt. Women think you’re creepy when you don’t seem put-together. 4. Cleanliness. Keep the armpits deodorized, your facial hair intact, and keep the teeth clean. If you’re not already doing that, then I suggest you start right now before you finish reading the rest of this post. 5. Overstepping your boundaries. You have to know the proper social boundaries when meeting a woman for the first time. Examples: • Don’t start touching a woman before she knows you’re into her. • Don’t be too needy. • Don’t talk constantly about your ex-girlfriend. The aforementioned examples will label you as creepy. Not sure if you’re overstepping your boundaries? E-mail me for an answer: tripp@trippadvice.com 6. Body language. This is last but definitely not least. In fact, it’s the most important. Confident body language will be a huge factor in keeping you out of the “creep zone.” Examples: keeping eye contact (don’t burn a hole through her head), straight posture, not fidgeting and keeping your hands out of your pockets. Also, remember to give her space. A close talker is so awkward, especially if you have bad breath. Those are some of the basic techniques to being personable and to not being creepy. Employ these in your everyday social interactions and pay attention to your moves. If something ever goes wrong in an approach, NEVER blame the girl. Instead, look back at what you could have done better. This way, you’ll always be striving for improvement. |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:11 pm ] |
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7 Could be: When you kino escalate don't look where you touch or wait for a reaction from the girl..just flow as if the touch is the most natural thing in the world. |
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| Author: | TrippAdvice [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:13 pm ] |
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@Melodical That's a great one! Yes, BE the touchy-feely guy. That's who you are, so, don't wait for reactions. |
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