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Author:  Direction [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 12:18 pm ]
Post subject:  The Stylelife challenge day #1 approach
In the Stylelife challenge day #1 approach excerise, are you limited to talking about meaningless subjects, or is it OK with subjects such as walking up to a worker in a clothing store and asking about stuff you wanted to know anyway? Does it really have to be approach just for approach' sake, meaning hollow subjects and a short exchange of words?
Author:  Wall1e [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 12:34 pm ]
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it's good to start approaching without the goal to seduce. Because most newbies just have fear to approach the girls because;

- They think they will rejected
- They think that she's out of her league
- They make up excuses to not approach her

These things that come up in the mind prevents a lot of men to actually approach girls, and that means they lost before even approaching.

With the challenge to approach WITHOUT seducing, you cannot be rejected. Look at this example:

ME: Hey, do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?
HER: Uhm sorry, i already have a boyfriend.

That would be weird right? Not a single girl would react like that. They would give u the directions, and then u can move on. Did u get rejected when u left that conversation? NOT AT ALL! YOU COULDN"T BE REJECTED!

And that is why u need to start with openers that aren't supposed to seduce, because when you overcome the approach anxiety, the fear of rejection will be conquered, and then u can move on to the approach to seduce. Worked for me at least.
Author:  worldrunner [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 10:13 pm ]
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Quote:
ME: Hey, do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?
HER: Uhm sorry, i already have a boyfriend.

That would be weird right? Not a single girl would react like that. They would give u the directions, and then u can move on. Did u get rejected when u left that conversation? NOT AT ALL! YOU COULDN"T BE REJECTED!
I haven't asked for the Starbucks but for the Train station, for the Time, for the bank, for the city center and for a pub I've had and "sorry, I already have a boyfriend"" is a common reply over here. Anyway that is not a rejection that is just meeting brain dead scared zombies, so who cares if they answer like that. :P
Author:  Direction [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:20 pm ]
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So in your opinion the goal is to just have any conversation, without the intent to seduce? I can kill two birds with one stone, and get some information I actually care about at the same time?
Author:  Bipolar Love [ Tue Jul 24, 2012 12:29 pm ]
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how do you sustain a conversation after asking for directions? I have learned you need to sustain 15 minutes of conversation before you can number-close, is this true?
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