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Author:  coldpua [ Sat Jul 14, 2012 5:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Opener: popular girl at my university.
I've been searching around this site and can't any answer for my situation so here I am registered and asking question. I'm still new in pick up artistry. I don't also have a really good english if you noticed it. Anyway, I'm living somewhere in Asia and English is not my native language. So, speaking to her will not be completely english but on my own native language which I'm good at.

Here's my situation: I saw this beautiful girl who's on the same course as mine but in lower batch. I'm 4th year and she's 2nd year. I knew that she's 2nd year because she has a certain position on her college batch government.. I think before vice president which is quite high.

My question is, how the hell can I approach this girl? I really don't have a huge social circle on my university. Let me say.. I'm just nobody... though I have friends around but they don't know this chick maybe because she's in lower batch.

My thoughts about the opener would be something related to their works in government something and try to ask her about it. Then after that, I'll get into telling her my name and saying nice meeting her. Then, I'm completely black out. LOL. what's next?

Seriously, I find it really hard approaching girls in university compare to malls. I dunno.. Blame my lack of experience I guess.

Thanks,
coldpua
Author:  Melodical [ Sat Jul 14, 2012 5:26 pm ]
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Approach direct to avoid startle autopilot response. Get into state-put yourself in the mental state you want the girl to enter-this triggers the state in the girl through mirror neuron activation. Your line could be "Hi...I saw you and had to meet you, what's your name?" This will project alpha and selective framing. When she replies with her name say "Hi _____" then keep talking, asking opinions, questions about herself you want to speak 80% of the first 3 minutes. This disables her amygdala threat response by creating familiarity, the talking uses up her cortical buffer and disables her conscious threat analysis and bottlenecks amgydalan mediation channels till threat evaluation is complete. The increased emotional state induced should create attraction to yourself.
Author:  mrjones [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 3:15 am ]
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Approach direct to avoid startle autopilot response. Get into state-put yourself in the mental state you want the girl to enter-this triggers the state in the girl through mirror neuron activation. Your line could be "Hi...I saw you and had to meet you, what's your name?" This will project alpha and selective framing. When she replies with her name say "Hi _____" then keep talking, asking opinions, questions about herself you want to speak 80% of the first 3 minutes. This disables her amygdala threat response by creating familiarity, the talking uses up her cortical buffer and disables her conscious threat analysis and bottlenecks amgydalan mediation channels till threat evaluation is complete. The increased emotional state induced should create attraction to yourself.
speak english.
Author:  coldpua [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 3:50 am ]
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Is direct opener really works? Should i compliment her and show what my intent really is?
Author:  nscott23 [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 3:09 pm ]
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if she is hot don't compliment on her looks..neg her,and do it in a fun way.
Author:  Sluggler [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 5:19 pm ]
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So i use to struggle with this a lot, but honestly approaching girl at school is actually easier than at the mall where people are usually in a rush or shopping, or with their mom/family.

You are over thinking it. You are thinking of her looks to much. Its tons of hot girls out here and she is just one. Look at it like that.


You can start by just opening her with some question like


EXAMPLE:

You:"Hey quick question, what year are you in?

Her: my second.

You: Cool, i was just wondering what you thought of the university so far. I always thought about transfering for some reason during my first and second year but ive really grown into the school, and like it here.

Her: Oh cool! Yeah i really like the school blah blah blah..

Then you can build off what she give you..Look for keywords she use and connect.

Then just intoduce yourself and if she is really hot neg her a little tell her she has weird dimples when she smiles but they are cute. Just find something random..

Then go from there invite her to chill with you sometime, or ask her what she does around the school for fun, and then go from there...Get her number and get out..

BAM! That simple bro. You are overthinking it. Just go in man.
8)
Author:  Global Player [ Mon Jul 16, 2012 6:15 pm ]
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Well, I may not answer to your question, but I'll tell you this: by learning pickup, you should focus on inproving your skills, instead of on one particular woman (also known as one-itis symdrome) .
Another advice I could give you: stop caring that much,
Quote:
I'm just nobody

and grow your self-estime
Author:  luminova [ Tue Jul 17, 2012 3:59 am ]
Post subject:  a few ideas
Well, college game is supposed to be a lot easier than cold pickup because it's all network-based and therefore somehow 'easier.' yeah. right.
I would recommend doing what you suggested after class
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something related to their works in government something and try to ask her about it. Then after that, I'll get into telling her my name and saying nice meeting her.
since that's a good way to start a conversation. I would recommend you then introduce a flirtatious element into your conversation; build rapport and then break it in a flirty manner.
Then ask for her number (preferably with some sort of reason as to why). example # close: "well, I have to go... but here, let me get your number." pull out phone, open new contact screen, hand to her. keep talking about another topic as she puts it in. after she does, preferably put your number in her phone as well, though this is not absolutely necessary.

Then text her for a bit (text game) & maybe phone game if you are bold. Invite her to hang out casually, from which you have a day 2 where you can run game on her, & your door is open.


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Seriously, I find it really hard approaching girls in university compare to malls.
I feel you there! I can cold approach a girl at a mall or coffee store far easier than I can on campus. It's like a totally different game, and there is not a lot of helpful advice that doesn't center around "joining a fraternity," "throwing your own parties," or "sleeping with the most popular girl of the group," skipping over the fact that each one of those is a monumental task in its own right!
But even if it is harder to get girls at college, it can still be done. talking -> flirting -> # close -> day 2[/url]
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