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Author:  Jowai32 [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 10:12 am ]
Post subject:  Approached a girl who was working, what should I do now?
Hey guys so here's the situation.

I had an interview at a mall on Tuesday, before the interview I saw this HB who's a sales in a woman clothing store. I walked in approached her directly said she's adorable I have to say Hi. We have a few chat she was smiling and laughing the whole time, so I try to number close her, she said she is new to the city, doesn't have a cell yet, so I asked her what time she's off I'll come by and see what she's up to that night.

An hour later after my interview. I went back to see her, said she had plans with friend after work, and asked me to write down my number but I don't have a pen or paper at that time. So she told me she's working on Friday and said I should come by. (which is tomorrow)

So I'm gonna go see her again tomorrow, I don't know if she still remember me, if she's not able to go out after work with me should I at least ask for her facebook this time and message her there instead? And what advice would you give me for tomorrow?

Thanks.
Author:  Sluggler [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 1:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approached a girl who was working, what should I do now?
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Hey guys so here's the situation.

I had an interview at a mall on Tuesday, before the interview I saw this HB who's a sales in a woman clothing store. I walked in approached her directly said she's adorable I have to say Hi. We have a few chat she was smiling and laughing the whole time, so I try to number close her, she said she is new to the city, doesn't have a cell yet, so I asked her what time she's off I'll come by and see what she's up to that night.

An hour later after my interview. I went back to see her, said she had plans with friend after work, and asked me to write down my number but I don't have a pen or paper at that time. So she told me she's working on Friday and said I should come by. (which is tomorrow)

So I'm gonna go see her again tomorrow, I don't know if she still remember me, if she's not able to go out after work with me should I at least ask for her facebook this time and message her there instead? And what advice would you give me for tomorrow?

Thanks.

Yeah it sounded like she wasnt ducking you. She may very well be new to the city and not have a cell yet(Although thats hard to believe). What i would do is stop by, she will still remember you(trust me). She may try to act like she doesn't if she does just walk away. Fuck her. 8) Since she doesnt have a cell, ask her whats the best way to keep in touch with her, or contact her to set up a time to hang out. This way she will give you a best way to contact her. If she doesnt have a way then she is bs'ing and you should just walk away and find another HB in the mall to hook up with.

Just have a nonchalant attitude about it tomorrow..Make her believe you don't NEED to hang out with her. This will make her want to hang with you more, and raise your value.
Author:  ERock10 [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 4:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approached a girl who was working, what should I do now?
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Hey guys so here's the situation.

I had an interview at a mall on Tuesday, before the interview I saw this HB who's a sales in a woman clothing store. I walked in approached her directly said she's adorable I have to say Hi. We have a few chat she was smiling and laughing the whole time, so I try to number close her, she said she is new to the city, doesn't have a cell yet, so I asked her what time she's off I'll come by and see what she's up to that night.

An hour later after my interview. I went back to see her, said she had plans with friend after work, and asked me to write down my number but I don't have a pen or paper at that time. So she told me she's working on Friday and said I should come by. (which is tomorrow)

So I'm gonna go see her again tomorrow, I don't know if she still remember me, if she's not able to go out after work with me should I at least ask for her facebook this time and message her there instead? And what advice would you give me for tomorrow?

Thanks.

Yeah it sounded like she wasnt ducking you. She may very well be new to the city and not have a cell yet(Although thats hard to believe). What i would do is stop by, she will still remember you(trust me). She may try to act like she doesn't if she does just walk away. Fuck her. 8) Since she doesnt have a cell, ask her whats the best way to keep in touch with her, or contact her to set up a time to hang out. This way she will give you a best way to contact her. If she doesnt have a way then she is bs'ing and you should just walk away and find another HB in the mall to hook up with.

Just have a nonchalant attitude about it tomorrow..Make her believe you don't NEED to hang out with her. This will make her want to hang with you more, and raise your value.
Exactly what I was going to say. When you go see her again, it should be something that you decided to do on your way to do something else. Like you were meeting a friend somewhere and decided to stop by and say hey, as if you could just as easily walked right on by without a care.
Author:  peel [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 5:44 pm ]
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Yeah you got the best possible situation so far. Just keep doing what youre doing. Though remember not to approach people in areas you visit often like clothing stores because I did that and was rejected and now I cant go to that store in fear of seeing her again :(
Author:  Sluggler [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 6:04 pm ]
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Yeah you got the best possible situation so far. Just keep doing what youre doing. Though remember not to approach people in areas you visit often like clothing stores because I did that and was rejected and now I cant go to that store in fear of seeing her again :(
Ahh dude fuck that! Your alpha!
Author:  Jowai32 [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 7:16 pm ]
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Thanks for the advices

So should I ask her if she can hang out and grab a coffee after work, or wait for next time?


Ha I don't think that would be a problem since it's a woman clothing store.
Author:  Sluggler [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 8:22 pm ]
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Nah fuck that, don't wait till next time. Your time is valuable. Ask her this time. Don't wait. If she says she cant or busy that's when you get the best way to contact her and leave. Don't put to much thought into one girl bro.
Author:  Sluggler [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 8:24 pm ]
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Im sure its PLENTY other HB in the mall so if she keeps flaking or bs'ing its something wrong with her, not you. Thats when you hall ass and meet some other HB around the mall or wherever.
Author:  thomasmarteen [ Sat Jul 07, 2012 12:38 pm ]
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An hour later after my interview. I went back to see her, said she had plans with friend after work, and asked me to write down my number but I don't have a pen or paper at that time. So she told me she's working on Friday and said I should come by.
Author:  Sluggler [ Sat Jul 07, 2012 12:59 pm ]
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An hour later after my interview. I went back to see her, said she had plans with friend after work, and asked me to write down my number but I don't have a pen or paper at that time. So she told me she's working on Friday and said I should come by.
Hmm...Don't put to much thought into her. Stop by on your time, and keep it moving. Maybe even pick up a chick to stop pass the store to shop with you, and then say "Oh Heyyy" when you see her. Let her know you are just chilling with a friend and such. This shit will really raise your value and have her fucked up. haha :D I've down that with plenty of girls all the time.

I was in the mall one time, and it was this girl i was trying to mess with for the longest. She kept acting flaky and shit so one day i went out in the mall meet this random hot chick asked her could she help me with a shirt and jeans i was trying to buy. When i went back in with her, the girl i was trying to get with looked SHOCKED. I guess she thought i was a loser or something...I was like bitch im a PUA. So i ended up getting her number and fucking her in about 2 days. :lol:
Author:  TheKoon [ Tue Jul 10, 2012 8:05 pm ]
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When she said she works Friday, you should of made up some bull shit excuse how you can't go see her at work on Friday. in the beginning you Don't fit her in your schedule. You gotta make her fit you in her schedule. This will raise your value.
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