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| Author: | Boyo [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 4:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to approach a group of people? |
This question applies to a group of girls, or mixed group. If you have a target do you wait until you can try isolate her? I have no idea how to approach groups, i feel if i opening with a question like most of these openers, the group would just be like: "what??" and either laugh, ignore or say go away. |
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| Author: | XxBAMFxX [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 4:22 pm ] |
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Dude I know you may have heard this many times before, but it's really not about WHAT you say but HOW you say it. You can say almost anything to the group as long as it is fueled by GENUINE curiosity. If you don't really want to know their opinion on Drake and Chris Brown fighting over Rihanna, then ask them something else. Also, if you portray yourself in a confident manner, the sky is the limit. Don't lean in when you approach them, own your own space of the floor. In fact when approaching them come in at an angle, with one shoulder turned to them. It's if as if you're looking over your shoulder. I.e. if they are in a circle, have your right shoulder pointing towards the center of the circle and the left one, out. Then once the conversation gets going, you can start to turn your body and face them more directly. If you approach in this way, you will seem less needy, more confident, and will have better results with group conversations. |
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| Author: | Boyo [ Sun Jun 24, 2012 2:17 pm ] |
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Hmm.. as with everything, with enough confidence and the mentality of you dont care what happens; why not? - Just go in, (i guess the general consensus is to get a open question to get the whole group involved) ask the question, and there is only two outcomes: they answer, or tell you to piss off. However, what do i reply when a question along the line of why am i asking them, or where are my group of mates when im out soloing? - ive lost my mates? Ideas on this would be great Cheers |
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