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| Author: | diegoB [ Sun Jun 17, 2012 2:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | what if im afraid to open? |
i always see a girl and i always know the opener i have alot of knowledge but im always afraid. i have my moment that i just improvize and it works but that is always in my comfort zone with my friends or in my terirory. i cant go up to a group of girls or a pair of girls and use an opener and all sorts of sht and im afraid to forget things or screw up and fuck up. how can i over come this fear? |
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| Author: | jmatla [ Sun Jun 17, 2012 2:04 pm ] |
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You overcome it by doing it once, then once more, then once more! until the awkwardness is over! I used to have it! just start slow! just saying hi to random people you meet, then start small talk etc! after a while it will be in your comfort zone! |
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| Author: | Mantis- [ Sun Jun 17, 2012 3:21 pm ] |
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Quote: You overcome it by doing it once, then once more, then once more! until the awkwardness is over! I used to have it! just start slow! just saying hi to random people you meet, then start small talk etc! after a while it will be in your comfort zone!
this.Pickup is like building a house, You can't build without a proper foundation. |
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| Author: | midlife_crysus [ Mon Jun 18, 2012 3:29 pm ] |
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You fear is based on ancient responses to stress and the opposite sex. You fear you will be laughed at, made fun of, beaten up, or get into something you ar enot comfortable, and you realize there is no going back, once you start to approach, you have to make it work, otherwise you will be deemed a failure by yourself and other members of the social tree. Social proof in reverse. but you just have to convinced yourself that it aint no big deal. It wont kill you, and what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. I found it helpful to game women in places where I dont know anybody. That way if it fails, nobody knows you anyway, and it doesnt hurt your ego. You walk out and everybody in the place and you have forgotten it in 10 minutes. But it can help you gradually get the courage to do it without any problem. Go to the next city over and sarge there, till you get used to it. |
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| Author: | PureHavoc [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 6:42 pm ] |
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Quote: You fear is based on ancient responses to stress and the opposite sex.
This.I personally started by just asking people for directions. Get comfortable with that, then ask for good places to eat. Then start transitioning and working in some cocky-funny in about how you'll blame them if you get lost, etc. Just start small and work your way up. |
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| Author: | DUbL-eS [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 4:20 am ] |
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Have you ever jumped out of an airplane? Sounds scary doesn't it? Well it's scary as hell. BUT the more you do it, the less scary and more fun it becomes! |
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| Author: | RaginAsianC [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 1:51 pm ] |
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You're making her DAY by approach and you're doing a good deed/favor. So go do it and don't worry. If you run blank, just say cool/ok and slip out but keep doing it.! |
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