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| Author: | Jake147 [ Sun Jun 17, 2012 9:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Failing to open and keep a conversation running in public |
I try to approach women daily in the train when they come to sit next to me. I tried opening several times with: "Is my bag in your way?", after that I'm not really sure what to say anymore. Any idea's? |
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| Author: | JimD [ Sun Jun 17, 2012 2:19 pm ] |
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Well what's your goal with these openings. Do you just want to be social? A number close? A date on the spot? Always have a goal, and that powerful thing in between your ears will always come up with the right answer. |
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| Author: | Midnight2234 [ Sun Jun 17, 2012 2:40 pm ] |
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If one opener is not working for you, ditch it for now and move on with another one. your never going to get the same response with every HB you meet. maybe try going more direct and less situational? |
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| Author: | Mantis- [ Sun Jun 17, 2012 3:18 pm ] |
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Less thinking more action, Where are you heading? Just say the first thing that you are thinking off. If you say nothing you don't get her, If you say something that doesn't work you won't get her either. Also, you will never see her again afterwards if you fail (or if you don't try). Just say something. The only way to fail is to fail by not trying |
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| Author: | Jake147 [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 5:16 am ] |
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I'm just learning to open up a conversation. It feels like a too personal question to ask a stranger where she is heading. I can already assume by the tone of my voice that I will say it in a doubting way which makes my chance bigger to be ignored or get a stupid response. |
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| Author: | Bouncerr [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 10:39 am ] |
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Quote: I'm just learning to open up a conversation. It feels like a too personal question to ask a stranger where she is heading. I can already assume by the tone of my voice that I will say it in a doubting way which makes my chance bigger to be ignored or get a stupid response.
Yeah & if you think that it'll happen, it WILL happen.I'd say: just try it out & see what happens! (without already 'knowing' that its going wrong etc) Good luck buddy! |
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| Author: | Mantis- [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 10:43 am ] |
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Ask her for a name to open, shake hands, keep eye contact, never let her hand go first. |
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