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| Author: | SlamBoy [ Tue May 22, 2012 10:54 am ] |
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What up players During daygame...I just cannot approach a women. I see their face and they all look so serious. I freeze up and just do not know what to say or when to say it. I go to college by the way so everything is quite rushed, everyone moving to and from class etc. I don't know how to overcome this. If I do notice a HB in class, I think of something clever to say and by the time class has finished i've talked myself out of it. My main issue is the fact that I see them as always moving/serious/busy. How can I overcome this? Any tips (particularly for college) but any daygame approach advice in general would be much appreciated! |
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| Author: | SilverBackPUA [ Tue May 22, 2012 12:02 pm ] |
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Practice with people you see everyday, not only HBs, but with staff, waitresses or cashiers, and remember the 3 second rule (approaching within the first 3 seconds you see a girl). When you have opened keep the conversation short and simple, and if maintaining eye contact is a difficult issue for you, you can look not in the eyes, but to the nose and she will not even notice. SilverBack |
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| Author: | nixxor [ Tue May 22, 2012 6:26 pm ] |
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I think your key problem is that you worry too much about what OTHERS gonna think of you... Who cares. Accept that you are a player. thats what you do... and that you are doing THEM a FAVOR by talking to them. Don't push it... if they are not interested or dont have time. Cool whatever. next one |
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| Author: | MadTown Mayhem [ Wed May 23, 2012 1:46 am ] |
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Quote: My main issue is the fact that I see them as always moving/serious/busy. How can I overcome this?
Superglue, and lots of it.OK, seriously, part of the problem is that you are making up excuses. If they weren't always busy/moving/serious, it would be that they must already have a boyfriend or something like that. You're also putting the women up on a pedestal before you've even talked to them. You don't know who they are, they could be total bitches, racist, unintelligent, etc. You also seem to think that they will punish any guy who tries to talk to them who isn't on the football team. And you're placing an absurdly heavy weight on the success of the conversation, and conversations with that kind of pressure rarely succeeds. Like Silverback recommends, just start talking to everybody. Work your way up to HB classmates, and along the way you'll see that for the most part, all you need to do is talk and have some light banter. It's great if you have a super-clever line, but they aren't necessary. There's an added advantage to being conversational, you start to get a glow where you maintain an upbeat tempo that other people want to be a part of. I actually prefer daygame because it's a little more direct and honest. Women are actually nicer and more open than the ones you run into at bars and nightclubs. Instead of thinking up a clever line, which is probably more useful in a nightclub, be situational and talk to the woman about whatever she is doing or something that is around her. |
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| Author: | Many_Worlds [ Tue May 29, 2012 7:52 pm ] |
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have a couple shots before you go out lol |
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