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| Author: | Sebastion Reef [ Thu May 17, 2012 6:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | This really is the most effective opener |
The openers in the other posts are really entertaining and funny tehe I had a good chuckle but some guys just don't have the confidence to use these on girls so for those guys who really struggle to open, the best and most effective way of opening is to simply smile and say "Hello, how are you" or 'Hello, how was your day" Don't say "whats up or Sup". People who say Hello have a certain charm about them and women respond well to a charming man. The hardest part is actually approaching the girl but your gonna have to do it or you can wait until she's close to you and then you just smile and say "hello, how are you" Its easy, simple and not over the top and perfect for guys who don't know how to open |
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| Author: | Soncheese [ Thu May 17, 2012 6:57 pm ] |
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i think "hey" in a nice confident tone of voice is arguably the best if not up there Soncheese x |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Thu May 17, 2012 8:44 pm ] |
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Quote: i think "hey" in a nice confident tone of voice is arguably the best if not up there
Soncheese x +1 hey! who are you? i am skills... Hey! how are you? i am skills Hey! i think you are kind of cute i had to come over and introduce my self, i am skills... Hey! I am skills, you are? hb name, nice to meet you keep them simple/ stupid... |
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| Author: | Sebastion Reef [ Fri May 18, 2012 6:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Approaching in a shopping malls |
Girls love to do shopping so the malls are always full of women waiting for a nice guy like you to sweep them off their feet. Walk around the mall and peek into the stores for beautiful clerks and shoppers if you spot a cutie in a women’s clothing store that’s great, select a nice shirt or jean or whatever looks cool and casually walk up to her (clerk or shopper) and say: “Hi, excuse me, can you hold this up in front of you for a moment? Its my sister’s birthday next week and you are about the same size as her and you have the same excellent fashion taste” You can even ask her if she sees anything else that your sister might like. You can use this in jewelry stores and ask them to comment on a pair of earrings or a necklace. |
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| Author: | tixx [ Sat May 19, 2012 4:31 am ] |
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couldnt agree with this more!!! "initiating the conversation is half the battle" -big daddy while there are plenty of clever openers and they would work on differnet occasion, hands down its best to smile, say hey/hello and work the conversation from their... what works best for me is after the conversation gets going let her know you had every intention of talking to her "i thought you where cute, so i wanted to talk to you" or something along those lines, this is where i see allot of AFC going wrong and telling her "she is the most beautiful girls in the room", instead you need to state your attracted to her while keeping her on the same level as all the other HB in the room. just my 2 cents, cheers |
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| Author: | Sebastion Reef [ Sat May 19, 2012 7:05 pm ] |
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In the Library or Bookstore This is one place where girls always outnumber guys Get the book “dating for dummies” if you don’t know what it looks like, ask the librarian. Find the page that say’s “never use these lines” and keep the book on that page. Go up to the girl and hold the book up in front of your face so she can read the title, she’ll start giggling like a school girl if you do it right. Lower the book and in the smoothest way possible ask her “so do you come here often” read another line out of the book and say ‘what’s your sign” She’ll probably start laughing and answer you, flip through the pages and ask her random question’s or you’ll probably also crack up laughing then just say “Hi, I’m so and so” It’s a good idea to discuss books that you’ve read or suggest books she might find interesting, or ask her what kind of books she’s into etc. Maybe if things go well ask her to join you for a quick cup of coffee and a scone. This opener is quite fun actually and if you make it entertaining you can get her number and play it from there |
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Mon May 21, 2012 3:45 am ] |
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yo that dating for dummies idea made my laugh. i could see that being a popular youtube video. however its very gimmicy and unnatural so i dont know how serious the girl will be during that interaction meaning she probably wont give you a day 2. funny as shit tho. |
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| Author: | nixxor [ Mon May 21, 2012 6:05 am ] |
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while these openers can work I highly argue against it being the most effective... there is NEVER a ONE WAY. remember that guys. THERE IS NO PERFECT LINE OR PERFECT OPENER. JUST FUCKING OPEN AND HAVE FUN |
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| Author: | Domino1815 [ Mon May 21, 2012 10:46 am ] |
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"there is NEVER a ONE WAY. remember that guys. THERE IS NO PERFECT LINE OR PERFECT OPENER. JUST FUCKING OPEN AND HAVE FUN" I totally agree with this statement! You should just go out there and have fun your life should not revolve around girls but to improve it where you find it weak! IF you feel that you need these openers then use anyone and have fun like Nixxor said! |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon May 21, 2012 10:58 am ] |
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one way to stop someone and open them with an extremely high success rate, is just eye contact if you get eye contact, and say something clear enough to hear once your eyes are locked, it is extremely rare that someone wont respond, and if you hold the eye contact and stop, then begin communicating, then it is almost for certain the person will stop as long as you believe they will and communicate while under this belief (basically if you know they will stop, you will speak clear enough to be heard and your intention to communicate can be felt) another cool trick is saying excuse me, before open, to get the eye contact, if you don't have it, this is great for cold approaches, but eye contact is almost 100x more imporant then the words that leave your mouth in my opinion, when it comes to getting a girl to hook |
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| Author: | Sebastion Reef [ Mon May 21, 2012 4:06 pm ] |
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I thought I'd add some funny openers  but like the guy's said just open with what ever you feel comfortable with at the time, and that is why a simple hey or hello probably is the best and easiest way to open. as you start growing in confidence and you become pretty smooth then you try new, fun and exiting openers, your sort of tested yourself just to see how good you really are
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| Author: | skills360 [ Mon May 21, 2012 5:49 pm ] |
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Quote: I thought I'd add some funny openers
but like the guy's said just open with what ever you feel comfortable with at the time, and that is why a simple hey or hello probably is the best and easiest way to open. as you start growing in confidence and you become pretty smooth then you try new, fun and exiting openers, your sort of tested yourself just to see how good you really areI did a post on the perfect opener in the lounge here: the-perfect-opener-vt133696.html |
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| Author: | Pua-novice-to-master [ Mon May 21, 2012 6:14 pm ] |
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Just adding my bit: when opening always look at setting and context (kinda like an english text LOL) look at her mood especially with the "hey" opener cuz if she's in a hurry or if she is not in the mood then she will just sa hi and dismiss u sme just say wateva depends on the day their having really so look at that too and you'll be fine.
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| Author: | Sebastion Reef [ Mon May 21, 2012 7:17 pm ] |
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Indeed you did Skills and thanks for that 
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| Author: | Sebastion Reef [ Tue May 29, 2012 4:40 pm ] |
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Another great opener is to walk up to a beautiful girl and ask her; 'Hey, could you do me a favor?'. 'Could you take a photo of my friend and I?' Tease her a bit by saying "you do know how to work a camera, don't you" say it with a smirk and a little smile and she'll find you attractive cause she can see your just teasing her. |
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