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| Author: | Roaker1 [ Tue May 08, 2012 5:50 am ] |
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I dont really have a problem opening its just after i open I run out of things to say. So i get nervous and just end the conversation or The conversation gets boring. Any suggestions? |
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| Author: | FCgame [ Tue May 08, 2012 8:40 am ] |
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This is something that happens quite often. It's related with the kind of questions that you ask. You can't/ shouldn't ask " No" or "Yes" questions. Do you know what I mean? Example "Do you like pasta" Yes, I do; end of the conversation. Try to find things in common, things that you both feel interested about and go from there, as I mentioned the kind of questions that you ask are extremely important. Remember that she's giving you infromation all the time so just pay attention to what she's saying. Here you have a video that I'm sure can help you out. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeQJmdHTns&feature=plcp Good luck |
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| Author: | wildchildAFC [ Tue May 08, 2012 1:07 pm ] |
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bring some canned routines
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| Author: | Roaker1 [ Tue May 08, 2012 2:55 pm ] |
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Im other words ask open end questions? |
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| Author: | FCgame [ Tue May 08, 2012 3:22 pm ] |
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Quote: Im other words ask open end questions?
Not only that, you can't ask " So tell me what's the meaning of life for you?" Do you know what I mean? Just try to ask questions or try to talk about things she can relate to.
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| Author: | detox75 [ Tue May 08, 2012 6:07 pm ] |
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unfortunately that advice relies on investment, and that video also assumes some investment in the interaction for the chick to qualifier herself. In my experience an initial interaction is rarely going to yield that type of result without a moderate to high interest level on the targets part. Why not take the onus of raising her interest level yourself? Seems like a better long term strategy. In which case try wildchildAFC advice |
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| Author: | nashnewbie [ Wed May 16, 2012 3:52 pm ] |
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Quote: I dont really have a problem opening its just after i open
I had this exact problem when I began to go out and talk to strangers/open sets... The only solution I found was to continue to open, open, open and it will all come naturally. Unless, of course, the girl is uninterested/boring and then it's her, not you.
I run out of things to say. So i get nervous and just end the conversation or The conversation gets boring. Any suggestions? |
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| Author: | Roaker1 [ Thu May 17, 2012 10:28 pm ] |
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Im going to try all of these. Do you guys ever warm up before you guys get into the pua mood? Like Just randomly saying hello to anybody you see to get you in a social mood? |
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| Author: | sleeping_giant [ Fri May 18, 2012 4:16 pm ] |
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Quote: Im going to try all of these.
Yeh, I think 'warming up' is def a good idea - it always seems to get easier/gives me more confidence. Just to expand on the open-ended question thing; I would say its not so much that the question has to be open but that its a question that can be expanded on. Can't stress listening to what they say enough - just take what they say and keep on going! Sorry this hasn't come across too well but what I'm trying to say is that her answer is your material
Do you guys ever warm up before you guys get into the pua mood? Like Just randomly saying hello to anybody you see to get you in a social mood? |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Fri May 18, 2012 6:23 pm ] |
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The best tip I learned on conversation on this forum: Pick out a noun in the sentence and ask for further clarification. Example: My friend Sara is going to Bla Bla tonight. Who is Sara? Where is Bla Bla? Why Bla Bla? What's going on their tonight? I highly recommend adding some fun and flirting to the sentence. "I didn't realize you swung that way, Who is Sara?" Repeat her last words and she will clarify further. Example Bla Bla Tonight? Oh yeah Sara said they have a Some band playing at Bla Bla Tonight. Some band playing at Bla Bla tonight? Re-open her up by joking with her. Literally look around the room and use a situational opener to joke with her and keep the conversation going. These can keep a conversation going for a long time and allow you to reveal nothing about yourself. |
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