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So i finally did it.
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Author:  achtungiono [ Wed Dec 26, 2007 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  So i finally did it.
So i went out alone tonight, approached 7-8 women that were standing by themselves, also worked up the courage to approach a group of 2 girls.
They rejected me big time :D
It was kind of tragic but still damn funny when looking back at it.

I asked them who was cheating the most, women or men.
They replied with "Is that your pickup line? You're so lame."
Got totally blown out at that point, couldn't get a word out.

Still i did it. Just thought i would share, it's not a post where i expect comfort or credit. It's just my success story. Thought, it still puzzles me how getting rejected like that is a success. :D
Author:  smudge [ Wed Dec 26, 2007 11:56 pm ]
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congratulations matey...

rejection in the early stages is good i believe.. helps u over come it for later and also a learning curve! Good on ya!
Author:  F-fresh [ Thu Dec 27, 2007 12:23 am ]
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For sure man, that first step is a big one. Mad props! keep it up and eventually it won't even phase you. 1 success is worth 20 failures.

-Your Friendly Neighborhood Fresh
Author:  Ezo [ Thu Dec 27, 2007 3:07 am ]
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Great work man!
Author:  TRS [ Thu Dec 27, 2007 3:17 am ]
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I will only get better. Congrats on making that big first step.
Author:  LoveMonkey [ Thu Dec 27, 2007 4:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: So i finally did it.
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It was kind of tragic
You shouldn't say that, nor should you have any expectations on your first few times sarging in my opinion. You did awesome approaching a 2 set and those other 7 or 8 girls, just do it again and you should be golden in no time :), gratz man

and the way you said it, it sounded like your opener was kinda awkard, if thats how you said it you might want to refrase it to something like

YOU: I need your opinion on something real quick
HB: ok
YOU: who lies more bla bla bla

don't ask for her opinion demand it in a way...

Hope that helped good luck!
Author:  Viziondfc [ Thu Dec 27, 2007 7:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: So i finally did it.
I asked them who was cheating the most, women or men.
They replied with "Is that your pickup line? You're so lame."
Got totally blown out at that point, couldn't get a word out.
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Dude!! That is awesome way to get out there and do it, you've taken the biggest step! I am still a chicken shit for the most part myself but I'm overcoming it by doing things like this daily!

Ok I have note for you!

If a girl ever asks you "Is that your pickup line?"

You can say many things to neg her here, remember you are the one with the power don't let her get you nervous!

Say something like "Me use a pickup line on you? Aww you're adorable!"

Or "ohhh someone thinks they are special! mm not so much I was just asking a question (smiling, smiling of course smilling), how bout the answer?"

These aren't the best examples and I know guys here can add to these and have much better ones but don't let her assume that you are hitting on her.
Author:  Viziondfc [ Thu Dec 27, 2007 7:35 pm ]
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Another note is that if you project yourself as having good energy and vibe by smiling and being confident girls wont usually question your intentions, portray yourself as being the coolest guy in the club!
Author:  lollercoaster [ Thu Dec 27, 2007 8:00 pm ]
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Just a quick note on using those opinion lines:

Those are probably the most known lines out there because of VH1 and the exposer of the PUA community. I'd avoid any opener that starts with "I need your opinion on something real quick"

I stopped using it when girls started asking me if I had read "The Game" A lot of them know that its an opener, which is sad. So we need to get more creative.
Author:  Crasher [ Sat Dec 29, 2007 5:24 pm ]
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congrats on getting blown out next time it will be easier
and like coaster said try to refrain from opinion openers because they are common knowlege now and the opinion u used is straight off the show so nearly everyone knows it
try making your own openers or you can search for new openers but you should practice them in your spare time
Author:  murfster [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 2:07 am ]
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I think opinion openers can still be good, so long as you don't use the extremely stale ones: ie "who lies more girls or guys". Also, I think your opener can depend largely on your frame. IE. If you setup a frame where you are NOT a guy to fucking treat like shit, they will take you for face value. Most people are conditioned to have a certain base level of politeness to strangers, and "Is that your pickup line, omg that is so lame" is pretty fucking rude if you've only said ONE thing. I would think that chances are if a girl is saying that to you, you have already shown some DLV's through your body language/clothing.ect which is why she feels ok being a cunt to you.
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