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| Author: | InnerGameConfidence [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 11:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Fake confidence? |
When approaching, we can all agree you're not going anywhere without confidence (Unless she takes pity on your helplessness). But what about fake confidence? Pick up lines are popular because guys find comfort in a script, right? Well what if you remove the script and just have the comfort? My biggest problem picking women has been the discomfort of not knowing what to say. Recently I've been fixing that problem in 3 ways: 1) Avoid UMs and fidgeting - when you say "UMM", it seems like you're about to say something and puts all the pressure on you to speak. Body language can be your best friend or worst enemy, so make eye contact and at least appear confident. 2)Take risks - Diving into a situation that scares you is half the battle. 3) You're the prize - Put yourself out there with a take it or leave it attitude. Build her attraction and get her to come to you. I don't claim to be a master PUA, but these are some of the tips that have been most helpful to me. Let me know what you guys think. |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 12:01 am ] |
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There is no greater factor to game than practicing set-after-set-after-set. With each approach, succeed or fail, you learn and become a little more confident. Eventually, you'll achieve the following: 1) You'll have the confidence to approach and say what pops in your head on the spur of the moment without a script. 2) You won't give a fuck if they say 'No' - which is the rason SO MANY AFCs fuck up to begin with. |
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