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| Author: | "The Gift" [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 10:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Socialising with guys in a club |
It's good to make friends in a club, be sociable, be liked. You get a girl, you go to the bar. People are nodding at you, shaking your hand. It's basic social proof. And it looks good. So many times I've made friends with a guy, shared a joke and when I see him again he introduces me to his hot female friends. If I were to open the same girls I may get blown out straight away, but because I'm a friend of a friend...they assume I knew him before the night their bitch shield is down and they're open to conversation and are friendly. Guys Toilets I always find my self chatting away in the toilets to other guys, sometimes mid piss. This may be frowned upon by some. "I tell you what, mate. It doesn't matter how many times you shake...the last drop always goes in your pants. What's with that?" "Don't you just hate it when your dick swishes about it in all the piss at the bottom of the urinal...just me, huh?" These kind of lines usually get laughs and some banter flowing. Can walk out with the guy and go your own way from there, maybe his girl friends will see you talking to him and assume he knows you. At the bar "Which bar maid do you reckon gets hit on the most?" From this you can actually use it as an opener on the bar maid, and get him/them in set. "Me and my friend(s) are wondering, which of you two gets hit on the most. I think it's your friend but he thinks it's you." If a guy is behind you at the bar, or trying to get in. Just simply say "You can go here after me" or if you can squeeze up a bit, just let him in. I'm not sure what else to add in terms of material, I'll probably add more. Other members are welcome to add their thoughts/material too. |
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| Author: | Hoopz000 [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 3:15 pm ] |
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Solid tips. People tend to ignore this type of social proofing aspect; while on it's own it won'tmake you a master PUA, but it's a great addition to help in your pick up. Simple things like these tips is all it takes. Additional advice: sometimes guys will get defensive and almost think you're hitting on them if you're being friendly. You can disarm this; one example would be to throw in something like "my ex girlfriend and I...." to indirectly relay that you're just a straight guy being friendly and not trying to pull moves on the other guy. |
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| Author: | paddy1000 [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 4:14 pm ] |
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It's pretty easy to make friends with guys. Just ask them the AFC questions you would never ask a girl. Where are you from? Come here often? etc. You can make friends with them in mixed sets by telling them that you have hot girls with you who thought they were really cute and you will introduce them when the girls come back, then start gaming the girls in their group. They won't cockblock usually 
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| Author: | zebraG [ Thu Apr 26, 2012 7:33 pm ] |
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Make sure that the guy knows that you're not hitting on him though; I ended up making friends with the HB's 2 female friends and 1 male friend a couple of weeks back. I gave my phone to HB to put in her number. I turned around to get my coat and when I looked back, the dude was entering his number. He handed me back my phone with a wink. Not a good number close. |
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| Author: | "The Gift" [ Thu Apr 26, 2012 11:44 pm ] |
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It depends how you come across. I never get confused as trying to hit on them, I don't come up to them all sneakily and shy. I'm loud, good vibe and make sure to check out girls while talking to him. Sometimes even just nod at him then look at some girl with a ridiculously short skirt or something. |
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