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| Author: | Business1 [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 4:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to open a girl in this situation |
I've known this girl since I was in grade school. We hardly ever talk. We are in the same class though. I see her everyday and she sees me. I would not consider us friends, but we are not just acquaintances since we have known each other for so long. She is extremely popular. I am a medium on the popularity scale. How do I open her? |
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| Author: | ClowdHopper [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 4:42 am ] |
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Hey man, so this is a little thing i think works with girls you've know for a long time... see i always hear guys saying "forget about her man, theres 3billions chicks out there just get another one and get over it..." but honestly man, if you already have a girl you're interested in and you haven't blown yourself out then i don't see why you shouldn't at least try right? Remember that you miss 100% of the shots you don't take, so you have nothing, NOTHING, to lose by trying... alright lets get to the point... i've noticed that when you've been off her radar for a long time, it does come off a bit weird to just randomly go and talk to her as she'll think you want something from her so i like to do a little "snippets" technique. basically you go talk to her with some random little thing you notice, mention something cool (maybe some kind of DHV story of yours), disqualify yourself, then just leave... make that False time constraint real... this way she'll slowly get you on her radar and start thinking about you... without even really knowing why. Alright i now this may be hard to understand so let me give you a little example: "Hey Gloria, nice presentation." or "Hey, did you do the homework." or even just open by taking a scrunchie that you brought and toss it on the floor near her and ask "hey did you drop this?" --> point is to talk to her right? just do something... Then be like "i like your hairstyle, it looks a little like the style my ex used to have but to be honest, i think you pull it off better, haha." (see the DHV of the ex, and ten a little flirt with the you pull it off better...) Finally, do a little neg or something like "oh hey you have something on your eyes there" or something on her ear or some lint on her shoulder... just something that makes you seem uninterested after having flirted... Then, and this is the crucial part, is once you've done this just leave... "alright, i better get going..." and walk away... now i know you'd probably want to stay and have a deep meaningful conversation with her but by leaving, she'll want to keep talking to you, you have to make yourself scarce so that you'll become a blip on her radar. and the more you can do these little "snippets" the more she'll have you on her radar. However, sometimes she calls you back to keep talking with something like "hey, where you headed?" or something like that... generally this means she's interested and you've already got your foot in the door so you can just keep the momentum going with your own charisma girls i was really into in my high school and it always ended up well. Cheers, Clowd |
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| Author: | jeffch [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 12:19 am ] |
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Yea, I'd say move on. Its more difficult to turn a long term friendship into a romantic interest. Easier just to find another girl. all comes back to being able to cold open |
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