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| Author: | FuturePUA2010 [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 3:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Can i get a game plan for a girl in my class |
So I am sitting next to who I would say is a HB8 and our second day is tomorrow. Talked with her quite a bit although one thing i noticed was that she literally laughs at everything I say however at the same time doesn't invest very much. What does this mean and what is the best way to go about this? |
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| Author: | FuturePUA2010 [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 6:55 pm ] |
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Second day today and things went well during class. Flirted with her/teased her etc and after class walking back to our cars ran some comfort HOWEVER something felt a little bit off, and I was having trouble keeping the conversation going just because she doesn't invest very much!!!! A little bit of background about this girl she works at Hollister and is really stylish, maybe a bit superficial haha. The good thing is that I have all quarter so I'm not too worried about today..But I really need some input as to what the best way to go about gaming her is! |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 7:14 pm ] |
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You have time. She could be very shy, or just being polite and is not actually interested. Be unpredictable. Talk to other to show her your a social guy. Not just other girls but guys also. Have days where you just ignore her, while other days your chatting her up. When she start investing a lot more time, you can give her more attention. Rules of conversation in general. Who ever is doing the most talking is the one that's investing the most. Ideal would be 50/50 ratio. But if your 80 %and she is 20 %, is a bad deal. |
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| Author: | RedCali [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 10:12 am ] |
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Make friends with everyone around you. Last week, I was in an all girl group for an assignment and had them all hysterical. An 8.5 in my class (who has a bitch shield of course) is ignoring the 3 guys in her group and eavesdropping and laughing with us plus the other usual IOIs. This is proximity. I notice she's giving eye contact so I open her asking her opinion and use some C&F on her answer. Bam i have attraction, but this leads to my next pointer. Don't rush, make sure you have that comfort built before the # or you'll have an awkward situation for the next 10 or so weeks of class. I #closed a different 8.5 in another class. Plenty of eye contact beforehand and did my natural C&F stuff to build attraction and do light kino. Girl is a prude but we talk about majors/jobs/funny related stuff walking out of class. I #close (this is all in one class) but it came a little abrupt. She has buyers remorse when I call later. I freezed her out and she texts me off-on but I use too much C&F (forgetting she's just an 8 ) and now I'm freezing out again. BUT because I have loads of DHV from chatting with everyone (including other hot girls) and she's just clamming up, she's the one that looks out of place. This helps your confidence and the chances she'll run back to you. My best results came from building small rapport/comfort over a couple classes before # closing. You're in a situation where you know you'll see them again so don't push it unless you know she's already down. Another good tip (if your professor isn't a total weirdo) is to hit it off with the professor and make some kind of connection with them, whether through a common hobby or funny story. Do this in front of the rest of the class. This is another way to show value/personality/sense of humor. |
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| Author: | FuturePUA2010 [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 7:01 pm ] |
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So today in class I had her hysterical running cocky funny game and also talking to another way less attractive girl next to me. Where things went weird was when she literally flew out the classroom right as it ended and didn't give me a chance to walk out w her. I think she was maybe testing me cause I saw er int peripheral vision looking back at me as she left. I feel like I fucked up what should I do next class?? |
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| Author: | FuturePUA2010 [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 11:53 pm ] |
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So I managed to find her facebook profile and it seems like she is one of those girls that always has guys around her...Any thoughts or way I can adjust my game to this?? |
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| Author: | GetFamiliar [ Sat Apr 07, 2012 5:02 am ] |
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Quote: So I managed to find her facebook profile and it seems like she is one of those girls that always has guys around her...Any thoughts or way I can adjust my game to this??
You're worrying about this one chick too much. You're going to unconsciously project how much you want her if you don't start gaming other chicks. Approach and close as many as possible. It makes all the difference when it comes to having the confidence to really put yourself out there while gaming.
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| Author: | FuturePUA2010 [ Sat Apr 07, 2012 6:36 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: So I managed to find her facebook profile and it seems like she is one of those girls that always has guys around her...Any thoughts or way I can adjust my game to this??
You're worrying about this one chick too much. You're going to unconsciously project how much you want her if you don't start gaming other chicks. Approach and close as many as possible. It makes all the difference when it comes to having the confidence to really put yourself out there while gaming. |
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| Author: | acid604 [ Sat Apr 07, 2012 4:01 pm ] |
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I'm in almost the exact same situation. I would say its best to keep convos away from school-related stuff, that way you can avoid the friend zone. Studying together outside of class/lecture time also builds good connection. This girl I'm talking to is also not very talkative but outside of class she opens up much more. I'm trying to ask this girl out but don't wanna make it awkward for either of us whilst we have class together. |
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| Author: | FuturePUA2010 [ Sat Apr 07, 2012 11:10 pm ] |
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Quote: I'm in almost the exact same situation. I would say its best to keep convos away from school-related stuff, that way you can avoid the friend zone. Studying together outside of class/lecture time also builds good connection. This girl I'm talking to is also not very talkative but outside of class she opens up much more. I'm trying to ask this girl out but don't wanna make it awkward for either of us whilst we have class together.
I feel like it's almost a better idea to just approach girls on campus tho i don't wanna become that creepy campus pick up guy haha.
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| Author: | RedCali [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 5:18 am ] |
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Quote: So today in class I had her hysterical running cocky funny game and also talking to another way less attractive girl next to me. Where things went weird was when she literally flew out the classroom right as it ended and didn't give me a chance to walk out w her. I think she was maybe testing me cause I saw er int peripheral vision looking back at me as she left. I feel like I fucked up what should I do next class??
Don't think too much into that, maybe she had an emergency, maybe she was trying to look like she had business. w/e just continue in your next class, humor is good for attraction, I would start the qualifying next class. Just beware the oneitis
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| Author: | nixxor [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 7:57 am ] |
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hmhmh first time I read it I was gonna agree with 0uch and say this girl could be shy... but after what you have told me... I actually think this girl has a bf or def someone she is seeing. That's the vibe I am getting from her. It doesn't mean you can't still do it... but you gotta beat what she already has... you get what I am saying? She is def. surrounded by guys and what you need is to build lots of A (attraction) with her. I'd def give it a shot. And like others said... don't give her too much attention. Spice it up and tease the SHIT out of her. Show her you are NOT interested |
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 9:11 am ] |
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Glad to see my fellow brothers in the same situation as me...trying to close this blonde girl. She laughs with me based on proximity and all this stuff, but there is such a time-crunch to get 1 on 1 with her and usually the class is the only place to do it...and of course, gaming in a classroom where everyone is taking notes is rather...well...very direct game unless I really tried to play it indirectly... She's rather vapid too, but we have not really had a deep conversation yet..it's all been banter. Fucking annoying. |
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