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| Author: | BobbySpitfire [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 8:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | College Blowout or future GF material |
Alright Im a total newbie to all of this and so far the only advice i can say I really like is Stormy's. Im not extremely familiar with PUA jargin. The situation My campus is fairly small and its the kinda place where even if you have no idea who someone is or who they are involved with you dont have to ask around for too kong to find out. Now as the old cliche goes "there's this 1 girl who Ive seen a couple of times during breaks, at first I would say I was averagely attracted to her but the more I see her around the more details I notice and feel excited(not in a horny way). She has class just down the passage from me and Is usually in a two set with someone who seems to be a close friend. So naturally I asked around and found out her name and that shes basicallyone step away from being taken, the only step left between her and her current suiter is to make things official. So I have two "moll hills" to clime: 1- I dont want to be rejected because it will be akward seeing her on campus everyday and maybe word getting around that Im some weirdo 2- I dont know how to approach her in a way that will get her guard up and resort to the "Im kinda seeing someone at the moment" All i know that if this girl is as unique as she looks.... GULP.... Ill develop feelings for her |
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| Author: | BobbySpitfire [ Tue Apr 03, 2012 10:11 am ] |
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1 important detail to help clarify.... Her friend that I mentioned earlier was checking me out!!! how do i approach this whole situation without letting it turn into some kinda "we should totally all get together sometime" kinda vibe. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue Apr 03, 2012 10:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: College Blowout or future GF material |
Quote: Alright Im a total newbie to all of this and so far the only advice i can say I really like is Stormy's. Im not extremely familiar with PUA jargin.
1- too bad rejection is a part of the game, and it is only awkward if you believe it is awkward and you probably havent been rejected that much if you have such a wierd notion of the aftermath being so astonomically bad, usually you just get her phone number and she won't meet you or says you should be friends, or she says no thanks/sorry I have a bf and forgets about youThe situation My campus is fairly small and its the kinda place where even if you have no idea who someone is or who they are involved with you dont have to ask around for too kong to find out. Now as the old cliche goes "there's this 1 girl who Ive seen a couple of times during breaks, at first I would say I was averagely attracted to her but the more I see her around the more details I notice and feel excited(not in a horny way). She has class just down the passage from me and Is usually in a two set with someone who seems to be a close friend. So naturally I asked around and found out her name and that shes basicallyone step away from being taken, the only step left between her and her current suiter is to make things official. So I have two "moll hills" to clime: 1- I dont want to be rejected because it will be akward seeing her on campus everyday and maybe word getting around that Im some weirdo 2- I dont know how to approach her in a way that will get her guard up and resort to the "Im kinda seeing someone at the moment" All i know that if this girl is as unique as she looks.... GULP.... Ill develop feelings for her 2- if she is sexually unavailable to you, then she is sexually unavailable to you, there is no magic thing to say and do to eliminate this problem short of being a wizard, she simply has to find you attractive, and consider the benifits of being with you to outweigh the risks, if that is the case she will probably choose you unless she is heavily invested in someone else, just go talk to her and find out this girl here is not so much your problem as neediness, you don't get one girl, and until you can notice girls and get excited (in a horny way, rather then an a-sexual way), then you will be slowing yourself down IMO, go meet women in general, make their day better, invite them out on dates, kiss them on the dates, try to sleep with them, the only repuatation you are going to gain from asking girls out on campus is that of a straight guy work on the process of getting girls, if you have one girl in mind, cool, go try to get her, but if it doesn't work out, don't be needy about it, you have to allow yourself to become vunrable and make mistakes, you will learn from them if you want to approach and not have it turn into a we should totally all get together vibe, then be absolutely honest and upfront with your intentions, tell them the complete truth as to why you are approaching and what you want GOOD LUCK |
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| Author: | BobbySpitfire [ Tue Apr 03, 2012 10:47 am ] |
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Ok cool so i will begin to approach more frequently, the only one last bit of advice is how do i deal with the being blownout? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue Apr 03, 2012 10:48 am ] |
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Quote: Ok cool so i will begin to approach more frequently, the only one last bit of advice is how do i deal with the being blownout?
well, nice meeting you!then move onto the next girl that you see who is just as cute if not more cute and say the same shit |
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