totally agree wit them guys buying drinks for women sends bad signals, even if they ask me ta buy them one i say YOU should buy me a drink, it shifts the power to you then. You should try just opening a set by yourself first like small groups in bars (clubs a bit noisy ) and use openers that come of as friendly, cool and intuative. I sometimes open a set wit '' hey my friend and I having this argument about who is better looking rihana or beyonce ? wat's ya think ? '' sometimes they then argue among themselves who is better and start conversations about them in which you can join in
its not the same old hey hows your night, were ya from, wat do ya do rabble, its interesting and fun cause were i live no one does stuff like wen trying ta talk ta women. There tons ya can make and create too that get women talking and make you comfortable around you. However im only at that stage yet were i get only numbers some i dont even remember gettin lol so anything beyond that is over my head for now. But dude set yourself a goal ta open a set and it feels so rewarding wen you intergrate into a group of strangers and become a part of the group
