You can't put the moves on the girl without her friends noticing -- this is the case of whether you get her alone or not. Girls are very social creatures; they are going to talk to eachother about things that happen to them irregardless.
Towards that end, think of this as an opportunity, not a problem. If you can win over a girls friends, you can win her over very easily at well.
If you approach a set of girls, there will be a period of time where they will only "sort of" pay attention to you. There are always a few moments where they are looking at eachother, trying to read eachother to see if the person they are talking to (you) is "safe" to talk to.
This means two things --
Their primal instincts kick in and fight-or-flight takes over.
When you first meet someone, they are quickly analyzing two primary things.
1. Are you someone who will harm them?
2. If not, are you someone who can help them, somehow?
So, put their minds at ease quickly. Disarm them and come at them with something goofy. Humor is excellent at lowering the proverbial "force field" so many men are afraid to run into when they talk to a woman. You have a class together, so their is no excuse for you not to have some sort of topic of conversation to bring up. Keep it light, keep it funny.
Also, visualize these women not as super hot girls, or some unattainable object you can never hope to acquire -- thats setting yourself up for failure. Much like the public speaker visualizes his audience in their underwear, picture your sets as 7 year old versions of themselves. They are children -- kid sisters, competing for your attention.
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So here's what happened:
),looked at her and said ''Hi'' with a little smile.She said ''Hi,1 second please'' because she was on phone.Then she turned around and at the same time a friend of mine was coming from the opposite direction and he told me that she had a big smile on her face the moment she turned around.Then some troll guy from our class came with a beer in his hand and said''OHHH I'M SO HIGGHHH'' so the girls creeped out and moved away.I didn't want to follow her so I won't look desperate.I'll hopefully talk to her next time,what should I say ?
