some guys go blank when it comes to opening on the spot so heres a kind of pattern to go by:
if she,s wearing red: open direct
Blue: indirect
black: start with a neg
white: start with kino e.g touch her shoulder say hey she turns around then be like "oh shit! I thought you were emma!" its a lil desperate but openers get her attention nothing else...
give this a try and tell me how you get on homw
thanks for reading